Is it normal that i love my best friend of same-sex?

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hey!i am very much confuse about my relationship with my best friend.we are best friends from last 2.5 years,i have so many other friends who are very close to my heart.but she means so much to me.my love is unconditional for her.i can't see her in pain or in any other problem.i am falling in love with her more day by day.the best part of our friendship is that we r straight and i don't have any wrong intentions for her.she also has a boy-friend.what hurt me most is her response to me because sometimes i feel that she doesn't love me n sometimes she behave like i am more than anything to her.so i am very much confuse.i also know that she can't live without sharing her secrets with me.i don't know why she compares me with her boy-friend which irritates me?she knows that i love her so much and its true.she talks me whenever she wants to talk otherwise she doesn't sometimes it hurts me.let me tell you that she is 6 years elder than me but age doesn't matter for me.And yea she is a student of M.Phil so she stays very much busy that is why i don't say her anything or complain her.i really love her so so so much and its 100% pure.i want to know is it normal?

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  • wildlydraconic
    11 years ago

    its perfectly fine. it just means that you 2 are very close

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    • anna.ahsan
      11 years ago

      thank u :)

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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    You said you love her unconditionally. I've felt that way about my friends, but I've never wanted to have a sexual relationship with them. Unconditional love is a gift, you obviously have a strong bond with her. Do you want more than a friendship with her? Or is your love life lacking? I know in times of desperation, I started opening myself up to men to because I didn't want to limit love but the truth is that there is something magical between men and women that I just can't explain.

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    • anna.ahsan
      11 years ago

      yea my love is unconditional for her.i do love my other friends too but she became a special one to me.no way,i don't want to have more than a friendship with her.but she called our relation is more than a friendship.i do respect her so much.i want her to be with me till end :)lets come to my love life,well it ends up from last 2 years.he ditched me and our relationship ends up after 10 years when he get married.the best part is that we are cousin's :) so now i don't feel that love for anybody else.i do talk with other men's and they want me to date them but i am sacred of it now.yes i do agree with u that there is something magical between men and women.

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