Is it normal that i love my best friend early in our friendship?

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Plain and simple? I'm in love with my best friend. He treats me so well, trusts me so much and try's his best to be as good a best friend as he can. Words can't explain our closeness. Hes the only person I've ever loved and is the most sPecial person in my life. When we go out together we always hold hands and kiss and he always tells me he loves me, but we don't say it in an "I'm in love with you" way. I trust him with my life and his family love me and mines like him too. We ring each other everynight and don't hang up so that the next morning I wake up to him saying good morning sunshine!! But our relationship isn't just about kissing etc, we have so much in common. We like the same music, usually have the same opinion on things and he understands me. Everyone says we would make the best couple and would last forever and people even made a Facebook group saying like this if u think ______ and ______ should get together.! There's one catch, he recently got a girlfriend. They don't see each other And I know him so well that I know he dosnt like the girl that much although he does fancy her. Another reason I know hes dosnt like her THAT much? because I told him I was going to back off and did the whole pretend to be happy thing because I still need to be a best friend but he can see through me and went mad! Telling me if I left him he would have nothing and made me promise not to. Then yesterday? He kissed me, we never intended it to happen it just did! He said after he would do it again to show me how much he worships me. Am I getting mixed signals, does he love me back? Please remember I'm a girl, any advice?

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  • Ironbatman
    9 years ago

    He's dating to get your attention , he wants you he needs you he is prob dieing inside but he just can't tell you he Is in love with you cas if he tells you he I scared he will get rejected.

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  • Thatguy777
    11 years ago

    He's in love with you. There's no doubt about that. I don't know why he's dating this other girl, but he should be with you.

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  • iminhere
    12 years ago

    Yes its completely normal, no doubt. This has happened with me as well. I thought she was really cool and caring but later found out that she's the same with every guy. Just wait for a while as every dog has its own day :)

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  • asdf90091
    13 years ago

    He definitely cares about you, but he may feel awkward about getting into a relationship. He's probably afraid it could destroy your friendship. Let him know how you feel, but let him know that you respect his GF and don't want to push her out of his life. From what you've said, he's obviously close to you so he'll probably come around with time.

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