Is it normal that i love my best friend

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I am in love with my Best Friend. We hang out all the freaking time, and are super close. We always go out to dinner together and go to movies together or take walks etc, but we are both single. Everyone thinks we are dating, but we aren't. I care about her more than anything else in the world, (more than myself). I feel like we SHOULD be dating, but we aren't. Is this Normal? Also, any advice for how to ask her out, like on a real date? I feel like if I ask her out to a movie or something it will be like us just hanging out, and not going on a date -_- She knows that I like her, and I am pretty sure she likes me too, but not 100% on that.

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  • Joebo
    11 years ago

    This is super normal I've been through it aswell. The way I asked her out was when we were on a walk I would like flirt with her then start nudging her lightly then try make her laugh look her in the eye and say do you want to go out with me

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  • Sophie5472
    12 years ago

    Go for it tell her, its worth the risk, she could very be your soulmate just flat out tell her i think i love you or sometrhing along those lines Or invite her to something that isnt the "norm" like something out of your normal range of meals like a romantic restuaruant or a picnic (if you dont do those would give you more privacy to talk to her how you feel to )

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  • stonecutters93
    12 years ago

    I feel like I could have written this post myself. It basically sounds exactly like my old situation. Tell her how you feel dude, you've got to take the chance so you don't keep wondering. But if the worst happens and she turns you down, you've got to give yourself time to heal. Trust me it might hurt like hell but in the long run it'll be worth it. She's your best friend she'll understand.

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  • IceRico24
    12 years ago

    Just tell her how you feel, its easier said than done, trust me, but if she means so much to you, dont le her slip!

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  • FireWorks
    12 years ago

    That's supernormal. In fact, I don't think a guy and a girl can be best friends without one being in love with another.
    Someone ever said to me that the perfect lover = best friend. Now that I think about it, I think it's true. I wanna have a boyfriend (a husband, hopefully) who's also my best friend. That'll be nice. =)
    I can't give you any advice on how asking her out though. Kinda have bad experience there, me being the one at fault. =(

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