Is it normal that i love making people hate me because i hate myself?

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sometimes I feel like I hate everyone but I hate myself most so I deserve this

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Based on 73 votes (26 yes)
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  • LizardSkin
    11 years ago

    I do the same thing OP. *low self esteem low-five*

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  • Astrobro
    11 years ago

    inferiority complex. confidence issues. the works.

    you decide if you want to make a change or not

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Oh stop wallowing. You gave no insight into your actual situation. You just farted out a generic statement. Maybe I'm cranky but I think your just feeling sorry for yourself.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I know, it's because I'm dumb

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      • dirtybirdy
        11 years ago

        I say what I say on topics like this because I've dealt with it before. It sucks, I know, and I'm glad I'm not like that anymore. Put a damn smile on your face, would ya? Like this :D see? You can do it!

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Wow like your so cool man. If you actually put time and effort into trying to make people hate you then your a tool. Seems like you want some attention. Like hey look at me, I suck. Maybe I'm wrong. Doubt it though. If you really want to hate yourself, go for it. But don't flatter yourself assuming that the rest of the world pays that much attention to you.

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    • bubbaa2131
      11 years ago

      Yes, call him out. You're intelligence is astounding. Except he isn't saying it is cool. There are actually multiple personality disorders that can cause this and even severe depression can cause this. It is a self-defense mechanism that makes him want to ruin relationships before he can be hurt in one. So yes, it is normal, it is actually quite common but I know you are so much better. And you say he does it for attention, which, ironically, is what you are doing.

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      • dirtybirdy
        11 years ago

        Ya, I'm aware of those things, thanks. And yes, I am cool, so damn cool. Hush up

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      11 years ago

      This.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I don't deserve attention
      People won't pay that much attention to me if they hate me

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Sounds like you just want attention. Nobody gives that big of a damn unless they've really got nothing better to do.

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  • Lonely2
    8 years ago

    If you teally have such low self esteem that is sad and I hope you go to a doctor amd counselor for this depression

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  • allstarbunny
    10 years ago

    You and I are so alike. I hate myself too. And do the same, plus a lot of other things in addition. I'm a lot more screwed up though..
    Are you a girl..?

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  • o_0
    11 years ago

    oho... you are special just as every one else is.... mistakes and flaws are a part of life no body is perfect ... failures are also important to make you realize that success is so special and who the hell told you that you are not good and deserve to be hated the person himself is sucking....!!! you just have to convince your self that whatever who ever says you are SPECIAL ... and TALENTED!!! and one day you can prove it ...
    so say to your self ''i am the best'' you love your self and take care people will all start loving you by themselves ...trust me !!!!

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  • RockStarGravity
    11 years ago

    When you hate yourself most of the time but not all of the time its because your not proud of your actions..
    Try and take a step back and figure out wht it is that it your thinking aobut when that feeling of self hate overcomes you... That will be your clue..
    Just remember that making mistake is a part of life- we all do it.. BUT to continue to repeat the mistake over and over again... is a sin to yourself...
    I can say one thing i like about you... Your at least truthful with yourself and you can admit what part of you is maybe not the greatest.... you already are ahead of most people...

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  • Emma27
    11 years ago

    It means that you feel you deserve hate and perhaps feel guilt about something? I don't know...

    Perhaps, just like a masochist likes pain, you like people to hate on you.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    See a therapist.

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  • Blue_Velvet
    11 years ago

    You need therapy to boost your self confidence.

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    OP, I Love You!!!

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