Is it normal that i love him and hate him in the same time ?

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I hate everything about him but i like that he cares about me.
I hate his words his gestures , his actions. Sometimes I just want to shoot him so he will stop being cocky, I even tried to push him from the stairs so he would fall and stop talking, he thought that i was joking but i was dead serious. Sometimes I want to kill him !!!!!
But when he is not around I keep thinking about him and missing him, I can't go to work without seeing him, laughing with him. Well I know that I really Love him But in the same time I Hate him. is that normal ? and what should I do ?

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  • Riddler
    10 years ago

    I would recommend couples counseling. You clearly love him but he frustrates you. See if you could discuss your issues out with him or both of you with a therapist.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    You need to leave him alone. Your unstable feelings aren't fair to him.

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  • Karmasbitch
    10 years ago

    You sound married.

    Just kidding.

    If I were you I would consider finding someone else. If you only like him when he's not around, that sounds like a red flag.

    I mean, it's really common.. But I wouldn't continue the relationship for his sake.
    Have a good discussion with him about your thoughts and go from there. Good luck xx

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      No I'm not married. and I don't love him only when he is not around !!!!! . I love him even when he is next to me and I care about him a lot , but sometimes his words make me wanna punch him that's all.

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  • SHAKEStheClown
    10 years ago

    Your post sounds so selfish. I wish he could see what you wrote and how you wanna push him down a flight of stairs; it's disgusting!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      LOL I'm crazy by the way he already knows that i pushed him on purpose ..... so just relax -_- .

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      • SHAKEStheClown
        10 years ago

        You sound messed up, God only knows what he sees in you.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          He knows what he sees in me !!!!!!

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          • SHAKEStheClown
            10 years ago

            Well, he sounds deluded and is probably making a big mistake. Who in their right mind would want someone who can't stand them?

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  • 1girzim
    10 years ago

    It sounds like the three days grace song I hate everything about you. I would leave and find someone who you like and who cares for you

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  • DiamondGirl
    10 years ago

    Karmasbitch is right. Im married, and that's how I feel. He doesn't sound that promising. Dump him or try someone else and see how u feel.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Go out with another guy behind his back and see how long you can get away with it.

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  • Shnaz
    10 years ago

    Just kill him and get it over with

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  • Aurora93
    10 years ago

    I know this feeling like the back of my hand (minus the attempted murder). It's called love/hate!

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  • Shelbs
    10 years ago

    Ever heard that song by Three Days Grace

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Acute Stockholm syndrome IMO.

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