Is it normal that i love her but she wants nothing to do with me

I've been friends with this chick since the 6th grade and we recently started talking again after 3 years not hearing from eachother..im 20 now and she is 21 and i always liked her more then a "Friend" we hung out for like 3 days we had a good time and we laughed went out for lunch talked for at least 5 hours each day just having a good time And i told her how i feel and the next day all the sudden she went cold and blocked my phone Blocked all Connections i had with her and left it at that never said anything to me or why she did it...really confused help would be Awesome! Thanks

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  • How did you explain how you felt? Because telling her about the shrine in your closet wouldn't have helped matters.

    Since you can't get through to her on your own phone, call from a friend's and ask why she reacted so strongly. When you talk to her be calm, inquisitive and don't go overboard and start spilling forth all your emotions. Calm breeds calm and she'll at least tell you what's going on.

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    • cuddlenef25

      Thank you both for your opinions and thoughts

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  • LongfellowDeeds.

    Hold up, i read these other dudes comments they don't realize it's not stalking and it's not easy to let go. I try and think there are so many hot chicks out there that one of them is bound to trip, fall, and land on your dick (or in your arms, whatever). What a bitch to not just say to your face that she didn't have feelings instead of all this blockage. I love a bitch and she don't want nothing to do with me any more after 2 years of epic perfectness. I don't like saying this but I guess try and move on man, I'm trying too.

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  • yoongies

    there are times where some of us was not comfortable of having serious relationships especially if we level that person to this kind, to that kind and we think that they should not have evolved to the next level... like me, I want this person just to be my friend, the other one is my best friend and the other one is consider as my special friend. each one of us has our own level to every person we met. so maybe you should accept the fact that she only wants you to be her friend that's all, and since you lapse through it then.., it means goodbye.., so be careful next time okay? before telling the truth you should clarify if you feel the same way.., for the betterment of your relationships.

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  • technicallyhuman

    women:can't live with them, can't live without them... so goddamn true!!!

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  • Ldizzy1234

    She sounds a little snotty. But I do think its normal to love someone who won't return the same feelings. It happens to all of us at one point in our lives. Its unrequited love, and it sucks! But you just need to keep telling yourself that its just a crush. Probably the best thing you could do is move on. You're only wasting valuable time that you could be sharing with someone who actually cares for you the way you care for her. But you will never know until you let yourself break free.

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  • LongfellowDeeds.

    That sucks bro. I love this bitch who moved away on me for school told me I was the greatest thing that ever happened to her, wouldn't stop telling me I'm the perfect guy, guess what? she left me. School was more important then love. She thinks this is what she is supposed to do. So now I think I'm supposed to kill her.

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  • aussiewolf

    well its pretty obvious that she doesnt want to see you again. she did it because she doesnt have the strong feelings for you that you do of her. she probably felt all creeped out that you have had these feelings for her for such a long time and thought you were a stalker. just let it be. let her go. the more you try to talk to her, the more she will be creeped out. do you really want her last memory of you to be a creepy stalker one?

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