Is it normal that i love and hate my friends?

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I have been hanging out with my two friends since a little before the beginning of the year. We have good times and hang out a lot. But, I have different likes and interest than they do (I'm intellectual and ,let's just say, they aren't the brightest crayon in the box.) and that gets in the way of our friendship sometimes. They also put me down sometimes and I am miserable at the end of the day but I have a good time with them. What should I do?

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  • helenjewett
    12 years ago

    slowly back away.
    why hang out with people who make you feel like shit.

    have a good time with other people that respect you.

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  • AnonymousCanada
    12 years ago

    tell them to stop putting you down, me and my friends rip on each other all the time but we know that we are just kidding around but if they dont stop then just leave them and have good times with other people.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I have had the experience before, and yes, it is normal! Sometimes friends stab backs, and we have to deal with it, the they're still our best friends. Fight, kiss and make up, fight....on and on. It is perfecttly normal to love and hate a friend, love because they're a friend, hate because they keep stabbing your back or something. If they keep fighting with you it's probably best to find a new friend or two, because that can tear you apart. Also, holding grudges doesn't help in these situations; make sure both of you "forgive and forget" the fight you were in, so there will be no brining it back up and starting a new fight over the same dumb thing.

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    Maybe you just prefer company. I would try and talk to others that are more caring and then back away from them.

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  • IlovePapaRoach
    12 years ago

    My friends put me down to :/ it's really annoying

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  • bubber
    12 years ago

    I thought I was the only one who felt this way. :$

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