Is it normal that i love a mates woman

i met a lady at work and started sleeping with her , i found myself starting to drink with her boyfriend more and more often just so i could be at her house with her , he just thinks i am in need of a friend and thinks nothing of it . the way he treats her and her children is appaling and the way her oldest kids speak to is just as bad . i have suggested she talk to him to remedy the situation but she seems to get nowhere when she does , it hurts watching her go through this pain but i feel if i am there for her during this time she will see how much i truly love her and dont want to see her hurtin .wat can i do ?

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Based on 34 votes (23 yes)
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  • seeking

    First of all, what you are doing is wrong, both of you. There is no excuse for cheating. Don’t do to others what you don’t want done to you. She should have the guts to end it if she is that unhappy and you should not settle for less. What if you were the other guy? How can you trust someone that is cheating? Be careful.

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  • joybird

    It sounds as though she's using you for a little light relief but who would ever sit with them as a couple?!

    Neither of you have any principles. She is obviously happy enough with her life or she'd leave. She obviously doesn't love you enough to walk out the door :o(

    Think you're being used. You deserve better.

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  • NothingxCrazy

    First off, make sure the gf wants the same thing as you.

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  • cookiesaregreat

    wait, you commented on your own question? . . .

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    • spood

      yeah because as was stated someone deleted there comment .

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    • NothingxCrazy

      A comment probably got deleted.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

        i don't know... i've had it happen before to me.. but the comments were still shown as being directed at me

        too bad though. i was going to suggest he do a threesome...

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  • r u for real , sicko

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

      You... are calling yourself a sicko?

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