Is it normal that i love a man 50 years older than me in a romantic way?

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I am 19 and he is 69. Ever since I was 10, I discovered a man that was 50 years older than me. I fell for him and I've never been able to look at anyone else the same way. I've tried dating, but neither gender makes me feel the way I do with him. I've completely dropped dating, knowing that if I can't be with him, I'd rather be with no one. My friends think something is wrong with me and think I should seek therapy. I think it's normal and that I'm entitled to love who I want. We've had multiple fights, with them even calling me a freak. I don't understand what's wrong with my love, so I'd like outside opinions.

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  • bubblewrap
    4 years ago

    have you considered you might have made an image of him in your head he may not be able to live up to

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Nope. Not normal at all. His dick might not even fucking work and he'll prolly be dead before your 30. Have you thought this out long term? I mean your not a freak for liking him but that big of age gap could really fuck some shit up.

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    • gaz3912
      4 years ago

      Idiot.

      Mind your own business.

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      • Doesnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        OP : i'd like outside opinions

        Me : gives outside opinion

        You : mind your own business.

        Are you new here? The comment section is where we share our opinions. I want OP to think this through more carefully. And I stated why. This is very much my buisness!

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  • LloydAsher
    4 years ago

    You are just romanticizing the fuck out of the situation. You are 19 you are still a teenager. Try being awkward for ten more years before trying to settle for far less.

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  • gaz3912
    4 years ago

    Love has no limits.

    If you are both happy together, tell the haters to go "fuck themselves".

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    What is stopping you from acting on your feelings?

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  • cipro
    4 years ago

    What if he is impotent already, you ok with that?

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