Is it normal that i love 3 people at once

im in a relationship with a verbly abusive drug addict. we have 2 babies together. im ready to leave him but i have no one here for me and no were to go. i do not love him anymore
there are 3 other men.
the first we have a long long history, lives across the other side of australia and yeah.
the second is a guy who only txts when it seems right for him, he says his phone is broken, he said a few mnths ago that when i leave mh partner the kids and i could stay with him, now his saying he has to ask his house mate, he says he loves me but im not sure but i cant stop running to him.
the third i havnt met oonl talked to thro txt and is scared of my partner and just bailed on me because of it.
all these men know bout my situation and my childen and there dad.

i have no idea what to do

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Comments ( 6 )
  • FASHIONWHORE

    Psh. Choose the first one. He's far away from your abuser.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    your life is so dramatic

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  • Spencer521

    Get away from the abuse. You will feel so much better. I stayed in the same type of relationship for years and when I finally called it quits and went out on my own I now have so much more in life. No more bruises, the savings account is growing, life is perfect. I was so scared to leave as he always said I wasn't capable of being on my own but I proved him wrong and am on top of the world. I have also found my soulmate along the way. He treats me like a queen and now I know what I'm actually worth. You too are probably an amazing person who is more than capable of moving on and creating a better life for you and your kiddos. About love, you will find it when your least expecting to. Everything will fall into place. So close the chapter your in and begin a new one. Good luck!!

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  • Ldizzy1234

    Tehboss is right. And honestly, I think you should leave anyway. Stay in a motel for a little while until you do find somewhere to stay. And then when you do find a place to stay, work to get yourself out of there and into your own place.

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  • Tehboss

    so you actually don't love any of them. they just mean a ticket out from an abusive relationship...

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  • AngAnders112

    you're funny

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