Is it normal that i lost my first kiss to a hookup, but don't care?

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So my first month of college, I was 17 and, coming from an all girls school, had never been kissed or had any kind of relationship. I felt really inexperienced compared to everyone else who were all having sex already, so one night I made out with this guy on my floor who I didn't even really like, and didn't want anything more with. I'm happy I did it though because it made me more confident, and now I'm dating a new guy I'm really happy with. Is it normal I really don't care that my first kiss was with someone I didn't care about? Everyone seems to put this emphasis on how your first kiss is supposed to be special and all, and I don't understand.

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  • chained_rage
    9 years ago

    Meanwhile... the first guy is standing outside your window in the pouring rain with one hand on the glass, whispering sadly to himself: "Julia, why did you forget about me?"

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  • TrustMeImLying
    9 years ago

    "Lost" your first kiss? That's a first for me

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  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    First kisses don't mean dick.

    Last first kisses...now those matter.

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    • Ace09
      9 years ago

      :|

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  • shuggy-chan
    9 years ago

    neither does anyone else....thanks for playing, try again next time on ........ VALIDATE ME INTERNET!!!!!!!

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    You didn't lose a kiss, you gained a kiss. Be happy.

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  • ShyFlutter
    9 years ago

    I "lost" my first kiss at age 13 with someone I didn't care about... However, I treated a lot of my "firsts" this way, especially sex at 18. Now looking back I realized this defined the relationships I would have later in life. I think the way we treat sex from the teen years defines The relationships we have in life almost permenently like an impression. (Not that they can't be fixed or changed, but does create a habit or pattern in those situations) Kissing may not be a big deal, but it's one of many choices of how we choose to have relationships and be treated.

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  • Lariii
    9 years ago

    Totally normal, first kisses can be special, if you put a big emphasis and expectation on it, but personally, they're just kisses. It means more with emotional and physical attraction. And knowing that your first kiss you confidence, is great.

    Btw, it doesn't matter you're not having sex at seventeen. I had sex at sixteen with a bf I loved and it sucked.

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