Is it normal that i lose my boner easily?

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so...long story short..im in the process of making out with some chick which then leads to you know what...only problem being when it gets to the point of doing it...I begin to lose my...boner..idk if its the whole undressing part...or just the fact of who im about to do it with....maybe im going to slow and need to pick up the pace during the whole points that lead to the *doing it* part..but idk im thinking the undressing part is what really kills me because it ends all the *heat*...can anyone give me some feedback please?

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  • HurrrDurrr
    13 years ago

    I'm will to bet it's all psychological. If you don't have trouble maintaining your erection when you're alone it's all in your head. I have 2 suggestions, one which is a temporary crutch for you, the other a more long term approach. For the band-aid fix: alcohol or any other drug that reinforces the ego (cocaine/opiates) just not too much or it will make it hard (no pun intended) to get/maintain an erection. If that's not your style, you could go for E.D. drugs like Viagra. For the long term and so you don't become dependent on drugs to have sex: Use visualization when you're alone, go through the motions and imagine how you'll do it. Practice as much as you can so when the time comes (okay pun may be intended) it will be natural and you will have less and eventually no anxiety about the situation. Any ways good luck with sexing up your lady friend.

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