Is it normal that i loose my virginity?

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I think it is normal to be a virgin, i am 22 now and am still a virgin, not that i don't want an affair, its just that i don't just feel like having sex and am scared of getting near men, my boy friends on the other hand wants it by all cost, they will promise heaven and earth but i refused some left while some stayed saying that they will take me as i am. To me since i was small i made a vow to God that i will never do it outside my marriage and no man will see my nakedness unless my husband, and i have remained like that. some of them will say that it will disturb me when i get married while some will say i should do it with them that they love but i bluntly refused. because i know men once they gets what they want they will dump you.
So my sisters/brothers if you finds your self in this situation, keep it up don't give up because when you get married you will have respect where your husband/wife is and also you will gain your pride and womanhood. Thanks.
God is warning us to Remain a virgin because our body is his Temple.

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  • bigguy2010
    13 years ago

    Good for you! I waited for my wife too. It wasn't for spiritual reasons, just a personal preference.

    As for getting "preachy," I see nothing wrong with expressing your beliefs. The world would be a better place if we listened to and heeded the advice of preachers.

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    • nk4real
      13 years ago

      Thanks a lot dear!!! Have a nice day ahead.

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    Normal. However I find it sorta rude that u pushed ur views like that. But it's great for u that u wana wait til marriage....ur missing out haha

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    • nk4real
      13 years ago

      well i don't think am missing out anything as you can see am ok. Any way thanks for your comments soccer2 (46660)

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  • jessicia16
    13 years ago

    it was all fine until the end of your post when you went prechy and stupid.

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    • nk4real
      13 years ago

      jessicia16 (60139) i know you are a lady, and i can't believe that a lady like you will say such a thing, that means you hates preaching. sorry for that but i did not post it only for you to see. thanks

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  • korn3654
    13 years ago

    Wait until your married. It's a gift you can only give away once.

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