Is it normal that i look down on gay men?

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I'm a 20 year old male and I am attracted to both males and females. I didn't have a "coming out" situation, I just realized it one day and accepted it.
I look down on gay men, and on people who say they were born gay, and on gay people who act like victims and protest non-gay people.
I'm not making a confessional and I have no shame in looking down on people who act like they're superior because they're self-victimizing. Flame all you want, I just wanna know if I'm the only one who does this.

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anti-hero

11 years ago

You mean you look down on them while they are blowing you? I am sure that both gay and straight people look down on you.

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- mhwk13
  
  11 years ago
  
  That made me laugh. Of course, I don't care if people look down on me, I expect it.
  
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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

Homosexuals are so gay.

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- shade_ilmaendu
  
  11 years ago
  
  This is my favorite. <3
  
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- Lynxikat
  
  11 years ago
  
  This actually made me laugh, yo xD
  
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- Allistalla
  
  11 years ago
  
  uhm duh ?
  Thats what it means lol XD .
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    11 years ago
    
    .....It's a joke. :/
    
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Yumazing

11 years ago

This makes me ashamed to be bisexual... it makes me ashamed to be a human being.

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- mhwk13
  
  11 years ago
  
  *Pats you on the back* There there, it's going to be okay. I can make you some tea if you like.
  
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  - Yumazing
    
    11 years ago
    
    Ooh. What kind of tea?
    
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    - mhwk13
      
      11 years ago
      
      How about some earl grey tea with a dash of mint?
      
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      - Yumazing
        
        11 years ago
        
        Mmm yes please.
        
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Justsomejerk

11 years ago

I think dappled and Parrish about summed things up.

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- mhwk13
  
  11 years ago
  
  I concur, and they did so in quite a fashionable way.
  
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dappled

11 years ago

I guess bisexual people can be just as bigoted as straight people.

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- mhwk13
  
  11 years ago
  
  I guess any human can be just as bigoted in one way or another as any other human.
  
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trollx1

11 years ago

nobody is born gay it's a choice they make

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- anti-hero
  
  11 years ago
  
  Bullshit.
  
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  - trollx1
    
    11 years ago
    
    you mad gay fag
    
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    - anti-hero
      
      11 years ago
      
      I am a "gay fag" because I am right? Silly troll.
      
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      - trollx1
        
        11 years ago
        
        can explain to me how a baby when it's coming out of the vagina can think about being gay when he is older.... when he doesnt know how to talk or think...
        
        if you can do that you have proved me wrong
        
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        anti-hero
        
        11 years ago
        
        When you were born you didn't know you were straight. If it is a choice when did you choose to be straight?
        
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- Allistalla
  
  11 years ago
  
  It is a chioce for a boy and a girl to have sex
  it is a chioce for a girl and a girl to have sex
  it is a chioce for a boy and a boy to have sex .
  Unless you are raped or held at gun piont to screw someone it is your chioce what you do with your body .
  Its not fair saying everyone is automaticly gay its rude and not your decisions to make up other poeples mind you cant say you are all gay and you are all streight it is not your decision becuase if you say this you are trying to dictate thier lives . That would mean guy raped by a guy is automaticly gay . Any little highschool girls who have ever kissed are gay for life and any boys who has been raped is in love with that person so anyone who wants to force sexuality on poeple fuck you its not your decision to force poeple to be what you think they should be ? What are you gonna do determine which kids are gay and raise them in show tunes nad determine which are streight and push them toarse football ? Ok thats nice so every girl who has expiremented in highschool should forever be forced into lebieness ? How upset will these girls be if you go up to them and say you are gay becuase " I say so " even if they have a husband and kids and gave up that and determined I dont think I want to be with women I do not think I am into them that much. Are you gonna go ruin thier lives becuase you want them to be what you tell them too ? are you gonna feel good when a christian comes hits you in the head with a bible and says be streight you are streight becuase I told you too ? If you want any kindve freedrom or understanding stop speaking in absolutres not everyone who does gay stuff is gay and not everyone who does streight stuff is always streight . In saying this you just said gay poeple cant play sports " wHICH SOME DO " and you said no strieght guys can like music . so thanks for ruining scociety for us all be cuase some how you have the balls to say " I DETERMINE WHO IS GAY AND STREIGHT " . I mean really who made you god of the fukn universe ?
  
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  - trollx1
    
    11 years ago
    
    dafaq did I just read
    
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    - Allistalla
      
      11 years ago
      
      Im not going to re explain it .
      
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        11 years ago
        
        please do
        
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trollx1

11 years ago

thanks for assuring your time on me <3 and yes this means your wrong

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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

i dont get it, you look down cause theyr'e superior because they put themselves down?

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- Allistalla
  
  11 years ago
  
  I do not think he looks down on gay men . I think he is annoyed when gay men over excessivley brag that they are gay I think that he is annoyed when poeple talk about it so much . I do not think he aucutlly hates gay men I think he doesnt like things when they say that poeple should make movies like " Adam and steve " . When thier is nothing saying they need speciel treatment . I think he just get annoyed when things are over exploited I do not think he means he looks down on them but he can not compreheand any other way to say it . Its funny I do not think most of these poeple auctully know how they feel or else they do not know how to express it in terms of words .
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    11 years ago
    
    thanks
    
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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

People are born gay, it's not a choice as sexuality doesn't change after age 6 (thats a proven fact). Everyone who doesn't know if they are gay, and then one day decides they are is a liar who just needs to feel special and different :(

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- anti-hero
  
  11 years ago
  
  People are born gay, but you think they shouldn't marry? What is next? People in wheel chairs, born that way, fuck them they can't get married.
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    11 years ago
    
    Very seperate things, i'm not sure how other than the word "gay" that they are connected.
    
    Yes i think they shouldn't marry due to the institution of marriage being a religious one, one that clearly states they aren't aloud to marry. But i also know that being gay isn't a choice as i don't have anything against them as people and studied Psychology and sexual development.
    
    So yes i'm against it for imposing on a religious law (something outsiders shouldn't do to any religion). But not because i'm anti-gay as i'm quite happy for them to be gay. Not everyone in the world is black and white, sorry.
    
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    - anti-hero
      
      11 years ago
      
      So since it is a religious thing, should a straight atheist couple not be allowed to get married?
      
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      - Allistalla
        
        11 years ago
        
        Thats a very good question and a good piont . I never thought of that .
        
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        anti-hero
        
        11 years ago
        
        Thank you Alli.
        
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        11 years ago
        
        Yes certainly, the reason being that the church has always allowed that. Because non believers will one day find god in the eyes of the church, god rejects gays in their religion. I think it's silly too, but i'm not going to force my beliefs on their traditions am i.
        
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        anti-hero
        
        11 years ago
        
        I still find that marriage has become a government issue and not a religious one. If you just have a church wedding with no paper work you are not really married. If you just fill out the paper work with no wedding at all you are really married. Seems to me that legal marriage has nothing to do with religion anymore.
        
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Avant-Garde

11 years ago

Your post is starting to make feel ashamed of my sexuality:/

I can't even....

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SeriouslySerious

11 years ago

Well being gay is unnatural so yeah looking down on unnatural things is natural (been happening since 2000 BC)

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- anti-hero
  
  11 years ago
  
  If it is not natural why are some animals gay?
  
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  - Yumazing
    
    11 years ago
    
    I mean, have you seen those sloths? They're pretty gay...
    
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    - anti-hero
      
      11 years ago
      
      Totally.
      
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- Yumazing
  
  11 years ago
  
  I don't understand what you're even saying.
  
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- EndlessSuffering
  
  11 years ago
  
  Well..explain to me how being gay is unnatural if you have the balls to do it.
  
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- Allistalla
  
  11 years ago
  
  Also no it is not , its also considered Unaturual to not be having sex at sixteen as determined by scociety . Its considered natuarual to go out in rape someone becuase thats what we did in nature . It is considered in naturual in alot of places to not be pregnant at 15 and 16 with kids . So Its unaturual to be a good person that determines nothing . Also this is in no defense of gays or any party , but if you look at what is natural it is not such a pretty things its also unaturual to live in citys to but we still do that . Humans try to act civilized but most are still animals and straying away from nature is what makes humans advance .
  
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- dappled
  
  11 years ago
  
  Hmm... define unnatural.
  
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