Is it normal that i literally run away from boys when i'm nervous

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Okay, before I know a guy likes me I'm super friendly and confident and awesome. However, after I find out they like me I internally have a panic attack especially if I like them back and when they say hi I can't breathe and get scared and say a nervous hi. When they say I'll meet you at Starbucks I mentally freak out and like run away. I have no idea how to get over being so nervous around boys who like me. Why can't I act natural and comfortable and confident and funny.

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  • SuperBenzid
    11 years ago

    There is only one solution to this problem, you need to become so fat and obnoxious that no boy will ever like you. I recommend eating tubs of mint choc ice cream while watching the View with a faint soundtrack of Celine Dion playing in the background.

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    • moo_cow447
      11 years ago

      HAHAHAHA omg. You are right! I'll have tumblr be my bf yaay. Lol jk :).

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Are you hot?

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    • moo_cow447
      11 years ago

      Um honestly idk because who "knows" if they are or not but these guys keep coming back and talking to me even though I'm so awkward soooo I'm gonna guess I must not be a troll monster lolol. :) <3

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  • changes123
    11 years ago

    STORY OF MY LIFE.

    There was this guy I met in chess club, we would always play with each other and I'd beat him. One day after school, he walks by me with his friend, and his friend said, "hey, there she is." I looked up, and he had this adorable blushing facial expression.

    Eventually I realized that he liked me, and I started to like him.

    I went from "beat him at chess and laugh in his face" to "omgiseehimandihavetogetoutofhere."

    I would literally see him walking down the hall way, and run into the nearest restroom or class. I also quit chess club for the rest of the year.

    *sigh* sad part is he thought I was avoiding him because I didn't like him.

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    • forever_anon
      11 years ago

      I hear you, hon. I did the same thing with a guy in my English class. He sat next to me in another class, and it made me so nervous that I just couldn't converse easily with him anymore like I did before I knew he liked me.

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      • changes123
        11 years ago

        Ouch, I can totally relate. The awkwardness just kills.

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        • forever_anon
          11 years ago

          It certainly does. It totally sucked because he was just adorable and I had a huge crush on him, but couldn't show him how I felt. It's like, "He's so cute and seems nice, why am I running away?" *Frustrated sigh*.

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  • kingsleycrowne
    11 years ago

    Hehe this is cute. Puts weight to the saying "thrill of the chase."

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    • moo_cow447
      11 years ago

      At least someone thinks it's cute :3.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    You just have to start with baby steps towards you goal. Start small, nothing planned or formal dating. Give it a try! Good luck with your choices!

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  • thatperson1992
    11 years ago

    Oh Em Gee are you the girl in big bang theory?

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  • Zombie4U
    11 years ago

    Well I usually run when I don't like them that way.

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  • go-ahead-call-me-nerd
    11 years ago

    try pretendig that they dont like you and just act like nothing even happened just like you do when you know they dont like you

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    • moo_cow447
      11 years ago

      I try to do that... but they keep telling me they like me aka how can I forget when they keep being all "remember guess who likes you ME." O.O

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      • go-ahead-call-me-nerd
        11 years ago

        well ummm do you know why you get nervous ......is it cuz your afraid of getting hurt or for some other reson you cant explain

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  • Fabulous
    11 years ago

    I love it when they play the rape game

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