Is it normal that i like white guys?

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Hello,
im a black canadian girl, i was born here. But ever since i was little, I have been attracted to white guys. I tried to get into dating black guys but i was just never sexually attracted to them. I find black guys some of them to be attractive but not enough to date them. I felt ashamed growing up about this because i was afraid of what other people would think.

Ever since i was in high school, it seems i got more positive attention from White guys, than i do with black guys. They would talk to me politely, with respect and i did like their approach to me - slightly shy and cautious. First of all i find that some white guys to be intimidated by me - im 5'1" and very petite, long black hair, pretty (not being conceited but a lot of peoole tell me this although i am shy about it)

Right now i am dating a white guy. I actually never thought white guys would date me. My boyfriend actually prefer to date black girls. When he first saw me he fell in love, i did too.. but i strategically had to plan how i could get him to notice me and it worked when my life was in danger, he saved the day. Since then we have been together.

My question is, do other white males find black women attractive emotionally, physically, mentally and sexually enough to be in a relationship with? White guys why are you shy/afraid to approach a pretty black girl? We are interested in you..

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  • BLAh81
    11 years ago

    I'm a white guy and find certain black women hot as hell.

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  • Cult1234
    12 years ago

    White guys rule!

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    • dom180
      12 years ago

      I read this and instantly thought "white supremacy". I'm not quite sure why, but I thought I'd share that with you guys.

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  • lala85
    12 years ago

    You are not your race. You are a person with opinions, feelings, a personality that happens to be black, or white, or brown....You seem to put your race first above it all by saying: "I actually never thought white guys would date me." I think you have very low self esteem. Work on that first, then you can date whoever you please.

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    • redsoles
      12 years ago

      i dont have "very low self-esteem".
      Im quite secure with myself.

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      • lala85
        12 years ago

        I have never met you so its hard to say but what you wrote shows someone who doesn't value themselves. At least that's how it comes across.

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    • littlelulu1999
      12 years ago

      I agree with lala85.

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  • gutta269
    12 years ago

    Yeah I'm only attracted to black girls and I'm mixed with japenese Korean Irish dutch prussion Norwegian German I'm not gonna name it all but basically I'm white and mixed wit like 15 different things but it all depends on the shyness like fo me I'm not really people person so once I got to know her then the shyness went away and I had every guy Hatein in high school cause all da sistas was attracted to me

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  • CrumpledPaper
    12 years ago

    Didn't read everything but I can relate to you on liking white dudes. I'm Dominican and all the guys that try to talk to me are black or ghetto Spanish guys.. Not my type! Never white guys and they're the ones I like the most!

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  • BurnaTwist
    12 years ago

    i dated a black chick and she hit me with a brick for no reason, not sayin black chicks are violent but just not my cup of tea, my wife is white but it doesnt matter black white mexican chinese korean russian race shouldnt be a factor, so black girls are cute and some are pretty it just comes down to what kind of person they are, nobody wants shaquita

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    • catocato52028
      12 years ago

      lolol thats funny

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    • redsoles
      12 years ago

      Well that was unfortunate. But i am not violent by all means, i could never do that to another person.

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  • HSVWHO
    12 years ago

    Problem .. 2 centuries ago... Not now. You live in a world where unfortunately no one cares enough.

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    • BLAh81
      11 years ago

      Unfortunately?

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  • mateo
    12 years ago

    to be completely honest...im redheaded....pale skin.....very white.i find black women to be extremely attractive physically and i like that they tend to have a loud,proud sort of personality.its what my friends and family might think that prevents me from pursuing one...i shouldnt really care what they would think....but um...poll creator?....do u really think black women are interested in white men?i mean more than black men?........i can find any race of woman beautiful but like i said...its my friends and family that keep me from pursuing

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    • redsoles
      11 years ago

      Lol you can't let family dictate who you want or what you want out of life. You have every right to love and be in a loving relationship. I know many black girls that would love to meet a white guy. I am quite lucky where I have been and met with a lot of white guys.

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  • ThatKidTotallyRocks
    12 years ago

    I'm a white girl, but I've been attracted to guys of many different races. I think it's normal. However, as a previous poster said, you may need to work on your self esteem. You shouldn't feel intimidated or feel that you are intimidating. We're all equals in the big picture.

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  • disthing
    12 years ago

    Everywhere I've lived in the UK has been majority white, by a big majority, which I think has influenced what women I'm attracted to, but also what women I've had the opportunity to be attracted to. Basically, I have no black female friends, and those that are around whatever social scene I'm involved in tend to group together to the exclusion of everyone else.

    I have been attracted to a few black girls on television and in movies, but black girls in the media tend to be fulfilling a stereotype of poor, aggressive and rude black women rather than ordinary or unique characters. This perpetuates the idea that black women are aggressive and consequently less approachable. Not a very attractive stereotype, which might be why some non-black guys are shy or awkward about approaching black girls.

    I think if I was somewhere with a bigger black population I'd definitely fancy more black girls, and it'd be nice to have that aggressive stereotype broken.

    I used to have a crush on Dominique Moore. She was on this kids' TV program when I was younger called 'The Crust' and has this sexy feline quality :P

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  • kismetie
    12 years ago

    Nothing wrong with it at all :)

    I've been attracted to white guys, black guys, latino guys, asian guys, indian and the whole works lol If I find a guy cute, hot, or whatever I like them regardless of what ethnic background they are.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Yeah I know exactly how you feel! But now I do find black men attractive and I'm sexually attracted to a few. But atm I'm seriously interested in a white guy.

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  • Insane451
    12 years ago

    Who cares what anyone thinks about what race anyone decides to date or marry just go out with who ever you want to.

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  • kittenlittle
    12 years ago

    yea, i've seen lots of white men with black woman where i'm from. Plus black woman are exotic looking to some white men

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  • HSVWHO
    12 years ago

    Just to elaborate .. People will always find something to comment on, or hate on. No matter what race you date. You live for your self not others

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  • HSVWHO
    12 years ago

    For the record, ewww white guys. They so white.

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  • Grendel1013
    12 years ago

    Personally I am not attracted to Black Woman in the slightest bit, and I have been around enough of them to come to that conclusion. Living in a City I am exposed to them on a daily basis.

    I find Black Woman to be:
    1) Loud and obnoxious.
    2) Can't stand " ghetto babble".
    3) They have this attitude that the world owes them something.
    4) They make a scene when they don't get their way. They love to pull that Platinum Race Card out whenever they get a chance.
    5) Hate (C)Rap, Hip Hop, R&B.

    Psychical attributes I don't like:
    1) Their hair has that dry Brillo pad texture.
    2) Their skin is too dry.
    3) Don't like huge lips, and this goes for any race but all Black Woman have them.

    But that is my opinion and my personal preference. I am not racist, these are my observations from my daily contacts with them.

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    • redsoles
      12 years ago

      You can have your opinions but obviously you sound a little bigotted. I am absolutely nothing you described.
      Not every black woman is like that. It must be a residential thing, because here where I am from I am the opposite. I was blessed with nice hair, I dont have a "big" ass, and I dont walk around with an inferiority complex thinking the world owes me something.

      Again, you can have your opinions. But it must be a residential thing. Thats like saying "All white guys are clingy" Thats just irrational and inaccurate.

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      • Grendel1013
        12 years ago

        I don't know how stating my personal preferences and why I choose not to be with a Black Woman is being bigoted.

        Honestly calling me a bigot just bolstered my point when I stated "4) They make a scene when they don't get their way. They love to pull that Platinum Race Card out whenever they get a chance."
        Being quick to call some one a racist or a Bigot is a sure fire way to keep the White Men away.

        All because I find Black Woman repulsive does not mean I am a bigot.

        You Being a Black Woman I strongly doubt that you have very silky smooth hair, or silky smooth skin,that is impossible. I am not bashing you in any way, some White Men love that about Black woman and good for them, I am personally grossed out by it. I can get along fine with a Black Woman, but i can NEVER be sexually attracted to one.

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    • Nitrix
      9 years ago

      Racist wanker... I know this is old bjt fuck you.

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    • Kandybars
      12 years ago

      I am black and only really attracted to white guys but I don't seem to be like the typical black person if you know what I mean. I am not ghetto. I am not loud and obnoxious and I speak and type in clear english. I listen to mostly Pop and Indie and a bit of R&B and basically, nearly every genre of music. My skin is not dry and my natural hair is past my shoulder and I do not need a weave OR extensions...
      Now I have no idea where you live and what kinda black people you come in contact with on a day to day basis but we're certainly not all like that.

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      • Grendel1013
        12 years ago

        I have met all types of Black Woman, even Black Woman from Africa, and their physical attributes are pretty much the same.

        Again I am not bashing you.

        If you take a sample of hair from your head, and take a hair sample from a White or Asian Woman then put them under a microscope. you would see that your hair is actually flat, while Asian and White Woman's hair is round. That is why Black Woman have really dry, frizzy hair that requires hair manipulation either from gels, hair spray, etc to keep it straight. Or why Black men keep their hair very, very short.

        Every race is built differently and that is O.K. Some White Men love Black Woman, and that's fine. I am personally not into them in a physical way. ( I think Beyonce and Rhianna are ugly as a rhinos rear end.)

        You seem like the type of Black Woman I can see myself being close friends with, but that is as far as it would ever go.

        Good luck with your search, and keep your head up. You will find the right guy for you.

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  • Rufus
    12 years ago

    Mulattoes have a gene that causes them to be repulsed by other black people.

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  • JuliusE
    12 years ago

    No, stick with your own. Don't ruin a good white mans children.

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