Is it normal that i like watching romance but i never partake in love

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I have always felt separated from other people.At first i thought that i was in some sort of phase but then ,even when people told me that i was isolating myself i thought they were joking but then my friend told me i watch to much romantic movies and that i should go find a boyfriend.And i listened but then well lets put it this way he was sort of not what i expected.And when we broke up i was in lot of pain but i recovered in 3 days.After that i felt that i gained more experience but it was more like a information and less like emotion.I felt empty inside like i always feel but that happy mood was out of the picture.Never have i felt so isolated and i thought to myself what is a point of being with a person if he is going to betray you and stomp on what is left of you.At least in my fantasy world real love is something pure and eternal but in reality what is love!Is it just a feeling that can drift away anytime or am i someone who just cant understand human beings.If so then what should i do to stay true to myself and not chose the wrong path.Should i listen to my heart or my brain...Is my life going to revolve around watching other people and their love life and i should get nothing this world gives to me .Like real emotion or real feelings!Not just my imagination but people who will like me for who i am!Or am i just losing my mind here....

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  • BeamDiamond
    7 years ago

    You don't have to confirm to the notion of being with someone "real" for love. It's fine to admire that in especially in films. I did it all the time a while back.

    You have to feel secure in your being and knowing what you view is love is real to you and that's plenty enough for you to have hope in getting the one you love into your life. It doesn't always have to be physically. Sometimes physical contact doesn't mean anything. It's just a known fact that it works for a whole lot of people but not for everyone. This is why we have so many things to explore in life. Smiles.

    You don't have to follow the set ideas of love. This is your world. Make it as you choose.

    Feel happy that you can start over again and actually feel relieved that no one like that person will ever stomp on you again because of what you learned from that previous relationship with them.

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Dont let one bad experience come in your way of trying to be with a good guy. They're out there.

    I have felt love, and I can tell you its real.

    Do whatever you feel is what you wanna do. Dont listen to other people. If you dont want a boyfriend then you dont. But maybe one day a guy will come along and you'll really like him :) haha

    Dont give up. If you want someone, then keep looking.

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