Is it normal that i like to pay online girls?

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I'm 19 years old and I just love paying girls on TikTok. I see their videos, I follow them. I message them on their Instagram (if it is linked and ask for their PayPal.) Out of 10 girls I message, at least two will reply with their PayPal.

Today I paid three different girls. One girl in Australia (i sent her 100 AUD) another one in the UK (10 GBP) and another one in the UK (60 GBP)

Obviously they reply with like "omg you actually sent me money. Do you want nudes or feet pics" I just reply with, Nah I'm good but feel free to send pics if you would like - I honestly consider it a bonus if they send me pics but I'm not really bothered.

UPDATE: I work full time. I take out credit cards (with high interest rates) with various companies just to pay them. I take out loans to pay them. I get "income support" benefit from the government to pay these girls. Heck, I'd even borrow from various people I know such as work colleagues, friends, and parents, etc, just so I can pay these girls. I feel like this is getting out of hand as I am thinking about "what if" I steal money from other people to pay these girls.

Fast forward, is it normal that I pay online girls that I've never met? What's your opinion on this?

P.s. I know they aren't fake and no, I am not being scammed.

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  • betacucksimp
    3 years ago | pl

    Well dude you are a classic simp if I've ever seen one. You know what vibe you give off by paying these thots? Desperate. And girls can pick up on that a mile away. They're being nice to you because they appreciate your wallet but deep down they think you're creepy and probably couldn't get laid even in a brothel. Keep this up and you'll be all set to be a 40 year old virgin someday, lol.

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    • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
      3 years ago

      If they are girls online they arent gonna respond whether ur desperate or not tho lol

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      • betacucksimp
        3 years ago

        It's the same as in real life. Years ago a really hot girl had friendzoned me, but I kept hoping that if I was nice to her and she saw what a good boyfriend I could be, she would change her mind. I sent her money and she used that cash to buy her boyfriend presents. That was so humiliating when I found out. Later on I looked at her phone and saw that she had my number saved as "free food". That was the final straw and I had to cut her out of my life. I suffered from low self esteem and depression for a long time because of her and she just didn't care at all as she kept jumping from one jerk to another and they all treated her awful. Women are irrational and illogical and they don't appreciate a good thing when they have it, and even when they lose it they don't have the ability to self-reflect on their poor decisions. But they love to cry and moan about why they feel like things don't turn out well for them in the end.

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        • [Old Memory]
          3 years ago

          It might be because they see the nice guy attitude as like red flag. Think about it, if you put up such a front that you're nice, it's gonna make people wonder how you are when you're mad. And if you're not good with social interactions, which many nice guys aren't since it does kind of take a simplistic attitude to be like that, it's all probably gonna look really fake and it would honestly be a red flag for anyone, even you if you saw it played out by someone who still thoroughly enjoys family guy would be like "I wish this person would leave"

          The trick to making anyone like you, a guy you may think is cool to hang out with or a girl you may want to date, is to *figure out* how to make them want to like you.

          These shitty guys everyone complains about are shitty because they know how to play people, which works in their favor because girls usually have the desire to be plucked like a flower; held in awe, taken, and adored, and that goes in many more ways than physical.

          If they can fake it to be shitty, then you as the nice guy can learn, I think it's called game but I would just call it interpersonal psychology.

          That's just my opinion on that

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        • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
          3 years ago

          You gotta take it case by case my man. Not all girls are like that. I've been with girls like that and it sucks. But there are kind hearted girls out there too. Theyre hard to find.

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        • MaxineFinnFoxen
          3 years ago

          I think you're just getting mixed up with unpleasant women. I know im not "irrational and illogical", and I recognise that calling you free food is really rude and hurtful. She already had a boyfriend, so you'd have been better off not being in contact with her at all if you didn't want to just stay her friend. Look at it from her perspective: this guy is giving you free money and you already have a boyfriend, so it feels like he's just trying to buy you away from someone you already love.

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        • FewDirections7777
          3 years ago

          Oh thats real bad. I honestly dont care if the girl im paying has a boyfriend or not. Like today I was talking to this one girl and she was telling me about her boyfriend. I sent her money to buy lingerie to impress the dude. In the end its not me getting sex or any sexual favors from the girl. But yet, they're so gonna have fun and I can't wait for her to tell me all about it XD.

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    • FewDirections7777
      3 years ago

      Yah I understand that part as well. I honestly know they are just being nice because they appreciate my wallet.

      But that last part got me thinking a lot if I continue like this will I be a 40 year old virgin?

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      • betacucksimp
        3 years ago

        Also, I just want to make this clear. Girls will be thankful for anything you send them, but they won't respect you for it. They will be glad you help them out with their bills or buy them a gift, but they won't see you as a potential boyfriend material. You're just a cash cow to them, and they don't care whether you look like a male model or an obese short dude living in his parents basement. Girls will date the badass alpha male who treats them like shit, and ignore the nice guy who gives them money and puts them on a pedestal.

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        • FewDirections7777
          3 years ago

          Yah that part is really true and I'm fully aware of it. I find the fact of helping them with their bills so unattractive but buying them gifts and such, is far more appealing to me. I brought this girl lingerie today so she can show her boyfriend how good looking she is. And no, I won't get a pic of her wearing it. Most likely I'll get a pic of what she ordered though XD. If that isn't a definition of a simp, I don't know what is!

          They'll never see me as boyfriend material and I'm totally okay with that. I'm not sending the girl money because I want to be her boyfriend or get any sexual favors from her.

          I just find my behavior really odd...

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    3 years ago

    i am also a sexy girl pay me

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    • BleedingPain
      3 years ago

      Sexy girls of IIN unite! (To hoe around on the internet during these hard times)

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    • [Old Memory]
      3 years ago

      Girl I've seen you around here before, send him your IG! 😉

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    • FewDirections7777
      3 years ago

      Not sure if you're real or not but if you are, why not leave me you IG and I'll hit you up?

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    3 years ago

    Well despite what those girls might tell you, I don't think it's being nice tbh. As you've said in a previous comment, you're only giving them money because they're cute, not because they desperately need the money. There are people out there who are struggling to afford food but you're not giving them money just because they're not young and attractive.

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  • my_life_my_way
    3 years ago

    I’m an online girl, you can pay me. I’d do anything for money.

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    • FewDirections7777
      3 years ago

      IG?

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    3 years ago

    Ive had that impulse before too. Not with online girls but waiters and shit. If I were rich I would probably give more money away to pretty girls. It's not really expecting anything its just like hey shes hot lets make her have a good day

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    • FewDirections7777
      3 years ago

      Exactly how I feel! But I really do have a problem. I work full time. I take out credit cards (with high interest rates) with various companies just to pay them. I take out loans to pay them. I get "income support" benefit from the government to pay these girls. Heck, I'd even borrow from various people I know such as work colleagues, friends, and parents etc etc just so I can pay these girls.

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      • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
        3 years ago

        Yeah thats not good.. at all

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        • FewDirections7777
          3 years ago

          I pay some girls and most of them are like "omg you actually sent me money" or "awww thank you so much you know you didnt have to" BUT then there are some girls taking it to the next level.

          I sent this girl $100 before and her response; "omg wtf. Is that how much I'm worth to you. I'm disappointed. Send more."

          What do I do? Send her another $100. Again, she's disappointed so I send another $100 and the cycle goes on and on again until I either ran out of money or she ignores me.

          Those are the manipulative ones. I love those ones. They don't care about me. They don't care if I have bills or a family to feed. (thank fuck I don't have kids XD) but I get such a high from those manipulative ones - it's so insane!

          I honestly feel like I'm chasing a high each and every single time. Kinda like a heroin addict trying to chase that first high he ever got.

          The most I've ever spent on one single girl was $700 and even now I am trying to chase that 'high' on some other girl.

          I'm not normal, am I?

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          • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
            3 years ago

            Lol if I sent a girl 100 and she says "thats it?" Id contact PayPal and say i bought a product from her and it was a scam to get my money back lol. Fuck that bitch.

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            • FewDirections7777
              3 years ago

              That'd only work if you selected your payment as paying for an item/service. Then you gotta go through PayPal's buyer protection and shit. I send my payments as "sending to friends/family" XD

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  • leggs91200
    3 years ago

    so tiktok is the new thing in social media?
    Should facebook and twitter take a seat next to myspace and AOL?

    Also, sending a few bucks to content creators isn't a bad idea as long as it is not putting you in debt. Maybe think of it as "entertainment dollars". Shit, people piss away $100 or more on cable TV and we KNOW how boring and repetitive cable is.

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  • Tommythecaty
    3 years ago

    Guy’s going to go literally insane when he discovers prostitutes

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  • hauntedbysandwiches
    3 years ago

    It's strange.

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  • Kool_owl
    3 years ago

    Its you're money do what you want .
    Personally I would never send money to anyone who makes videos .
    That just seem like a waste of money .
    And for them to ask you if you want them to send nudes is sad that they have no self respect .

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    • FewDirections7777
      3 years ago

      Yah... Not also is it a waste of money I am getting myself into serious financial difficulties (debt upon debt). Don't you think its a bit strange a random guy sending them money for no apparent reason? Nor sure why they ask me if I want nudes or feet pics. I just decline and tell them if they wanna send me pics then just send me selfies lol.

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    I wish I had so much money that I could be a simp just for fun and throw money at cringy tiktok users just because

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    • FewDirections7777
      3 years ago

      I don't even have so much money. I literally borrow and get into huge amounts of debt just so I can send them money.

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  • megadriver
    3 years ago

    Why tho? Seems like a really lame thing to do and waste money on, you're not gonna get anything out of this. None of those girls will like you, or sleep with you. No, scratch that...

    Send me money too! I am a girl who is in no way related to megadriver, fk that guy! I'm not fat like him, I'm thin, with big boobs, I love cars, videogames, drinking, cosplay, vaping, anime, football and other cool guy stuff. I only wear high heels and will happily send you pictures of my feet, courtesy of google images... (number one iin fetish after all) and you can send me money. Help me buy an old Saab 99 Turbo!

    I am totally a hot chick and not megadriver trying to make enough money for another POS broken down project car. Xoxoxoxoxoxo ^-^

    Anyway, rubbish joke aside... if you just want to enjoy naked women go to university parties. Those are packed with half-drunk girls wanting to make stupid decisions.

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    • FewDirections7777
      3 years ago

      I know they'll never like me or sleep with me. That's the best part about it!

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  • olderdude-xx
    3 years ago

    I'm guessing that you paid these ladies because of what they posted impressed you; and you feel that you should really tell them that - and are trying to make their life better. As a bonus you arn't that interested in porn shots.

    Nothing wrong with that... The Arts in general depend on people like you. People who appreciate that art and beauty comes in many forms - and different people enjoy different things.

    Enjoy life and keep positively affecting others...

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    • FewDirections7777
      3 years ago

      Yah I guess so but sometimes its just like; "omg she is real cute lemme send her $50". Some TikToks are just childish, but hey, we are having fun.

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