Is it normal that i like to masturbate like a girl (but i'm a guy)?

I'm a straight guy, and occasionally I dress up like a girl, and I wear girls underwear on a daily basis. I know I am straight though, cause the thought of having another guy in me disgusts me (no offense to the gay guys, but I just don't want a guy in me). I also do NOT want to be a girl, but I do enjoy getting dressed up in girls clothes.

Anyway, this is about whether or not that is weird but whether or not my masturbation technique is weird. See, some of the times when I am masturbating I, instead of grabbing my penis and jerking it like a normal guy, I tuck it between my legs (you know, like a crossdresser or a transsexual person does to hide their penis) and rub it with two fingers up and down the length of my faked "pussy." I'll even occasionally rub around the base of it like I had a clit there. I was just wondering if anyone thought this was weird?

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  • Rei

    I don't know how old this thread or question is so this might be a late reply, but the question you should be asking is what is normal and what is abnormal?

    Normal is something that the majority of people does and the abnormal is what minority of people does. Sometimes abnormal, or even normal, could be because of a disorder or mentality. However, in this case, it isn't abnormal nor is it normal because the way you typed this thread and how you are worried about the matter of masterbating like a female is not the type of a mental person.

    So, to answer your question, you're perfectly fine. I wouldn't say it is normal based on my statistics of guys generally masterbate by grasping their penis and stroking it. However, are you harming anybody or yourself? I don't think so; therefore, you're perfectly fine.

    If you're still skeptical about this idea, then you could think of it like this. Since you said that you're straight, I'm guessing you do get turned-on by looking at female naked or anyone that is your type or ideal female. If you dress up like a girl, esp. your ideal "girl," then you could safely assume that you see yourself as a potential sex partner (ironically). Basically, it means that you would get turned-on by looking at yourself or thinking yourself as a girl, but at the same time you are actually thinking of your ideal girl that you would want to have sex with. My explanation can be somewhat complicated because I'm not good at explaining.

    Another possible inference would be because wearing female undergarment/clothes could boost the effect of sexual feelings/pleasures. For instance, it could be because of fantasizing seeing a female masterbate. If you were to reenact a scene where a female masterbate, it would turn you on and cause an effect of affection.

    I hope my answer helps. Also, you shouldn't worry too much about what is normal and what is not normal because you should do what you feel comfortable rather than what society dictates or obligated to do.

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    • Jenna64

      Hi, what's normal for me? Having my boys pushed up inside under the skin above my pubic bone with a tuck. I place my four fingers on The panel of my panties and move them rapidly right to left. OMG! The firmer I press the wetter it sounds when my natural lubrication starts to flow. I feel my orgasm right near the pubic bone where my clit will reside not long from now. I've gotten to the point whereby I can orgasm without an erection. It's amazing. Often times I will give my panties a good rapid rub just to create dampness where it counts.:)

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  • guydyke

    I am a physical male housing a female set of emotions. And masturbating does become a problem. When the hardware doesn't fit the software so to speak its a little bit like trying to use a jackhammer with a manual for a hairdryer.
    Well anyway, what I usually do is that I imagine my penis to be a vibrator. I cant find any references on the web for this behavior so I can't really talk to anyone about techniques. I have the same incompatibility during intercourse. My psychologist have suggested that I should try to think of my penis as a two-way-dildo during sex.
    Oh yeah, probably should have mentioned that before... Emotionally I am lesbian.

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  • momydommesissyb

    I thought I was the only one who did this... yes it works. I identify as androgynous/trans/femboy. Most people who consider themselves some sort of MIXED GENDER do not conform to Heteronormative forms of masturbation. I date only Woman in the DOMINATRIX/BISEXUAL denomination and they tend to find this interesting and attractive. However not everyone is going to accept this as "Normal".

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  • Bear77643

    This vermin needs to be hunted and eradicated

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  • Bear77643

    Homosexuality is today's black plege

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  • Bear77643

    After reading the main post, including all the comments I find this very strange and abnormal..my self as never masturbated. I have been told from child sex is needed to procreate and self stimulation in this manner damming and NARSISTIC classified in 1955 as a mental disorder

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  • Runt

    Is it normal? It is odd. But I've always done it that way. Down between my legs in my underpants or Pj 's when I was a boy. And lay on my tummy. And hump and fiddle it till I got. "the feeling".
    Then is go to sleep. First time it "went off, it shot through my pajamas, I was holding it up tenting my Pr's and all of a sudden, I thought I had to pee.... I went to move and I made the slimy mess.
    No one ever talks about this. I thought I was weird that I loved beating off every chance I got. Just lay on my bed on my tummy, pants down and do it in my underpants. Till... Then just pull up my pants and go out.
    When I heard about jacking off, and some hot girl would make the guy make a table lift up, I didn't know what they were talking about. I always wore mine down. Of course now, I have problems getting an detection and wonder if tests why.
    Which is why a grown up needs to show a boy how to do it right without damaging the "little guy" down there.!

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  • missy911

    "I know I am straight though, cause the thought of having another guy in me disgusts me" Yeah - I USED to feel that way too but I am definitely MTF Trans.
    6 months into hormones and suddenly, I was getting wolf calls, come-ons & gentlemanly courtesies and my boobs responded with little electrical fireworks. I had to seriously rethink my sexuality.
    I don't know how old you are but there is a lot in your post & replies that might indicate you are more than a cross-dressing fetishist. Having said that, I am well practiced at this tucked masturbation technique. It can be exquisite. And you probably are in fact cumming, per-se but not ejaculating. It will eventually leak out and soil your panties. Nasty Girl!
    Try this, holding your middle and index finger together, like making a pledge; and while tucked, slide the fingernails of these fingers along the side of the shaft of your penis. One side of the shaft is probably more sensitive than the other. It will feel like you are being penetrated. You can occasionally flick your thumb across the frenulum below the head of your penis to increase the pleasure.

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  • GuessWho

    I can't think that that would ever work as well as jerking off the normal way.

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    • thunderh89

      Well, I do jerk off normally at times, but this, there's something about that feels...I don't know how to explain it...magical?

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      • MDAllen1982

        Nice major sploosh , I tucked in yoga pants and their my wife's. I'm a doctor at a regional hospital and never herd of this but I whack it between my legs like a fake pussy when my wife's out. Also please excuse my unprofessional language on here but those first few sentences where an honest Rant. I've been using tight clothing and my thigh pressure and hands to do it in this way. I felt really wierd and still hide it from my wife. The only since of normalcy was reading your stories and replies here.

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  • prasatko

    Nothing wrong with it. Also your idea of using a vibrator might be good.
    And the way you masturbate really has nothing to do with your orientation, so your preference is not gay.
    There may be countless reasons why you like this form of self-stimulation. When I was a teenager, I experimented with various forms as well, probably I had also some sessions which were similar to the style you described (I have always been obsessed with female masturbation and back then when I had no access to porn videos of female masturbation I probably experimented with something similar thinking about how a woman might feel while self-pleasuring. I remember for example crossing my legs while sitting in the shower and putting my penis down below the thighs and letting the shower stimulate it from below.)
    Anyway, do not worry about it. Experiment and enjoy!

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  • Maya05

    And this actually works to climax? Most interesting. I've never heard about someone doing this before but I'm sure there are others somewhere. I'm kinda curious in this technique though, I imagine myself as a women when I masturbate but I've never done this before.

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    • thunderh89

      Also, I have wanted to try and use a vibrator (if you look at research, you'll find that the penis on a male grows from the same area and actually develops from a female clitoris, as we all start as female).

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    • thunderh89

      Well, if by "climax" you mean actual cumming in the traditional sense of a white sticky liquid coming out my penis, then no, not all the time. Most of the time when I'm doing this my penis does get hard, but only about two-thirds of the way that it does if I jerk off. What normally happens after that is that I start feeling a pulsing sensation in my penis, but no cum. I can sometimes imagine it's my "pussy" throbbing.

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      • Maya05

        Oh okay, I understand now. Interesting.

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