Is it normal that i like to imagine my crush/boyfriend suffer?

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I don't think that's normal.

I imagine them suffer emotionally or physically all the time, it excites me.

I especially like imagining them getting hit or something and then trying to crawl away from the person who hurt them.

What's weird is that I don't get those fantasies when I'm angry, in fact, thinking about them suffering makes me love them even more.

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  • regisphilbin
    9 years ago

    sometimes I imagine my girlfriend getting molested and me having to rescue her, it makes me feel so manly.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Well, I certainly wouldn't want any of my male friends going out with you.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago

      How is the burrito?

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        Oh hell no! I only eat bean burritos, because they give me the fuel to gas out like I like it. No mystery meat!

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        • [Old Memory]
          9 years ago

          I was talking about Andrew.. HAha.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    That's disturbing.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    This does not seem like healthy thinking.

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    do you believe in karma?

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  • pdx
    9 years ago

    u must be possessed by demons

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    • Ellen-Scene
      9 years ago

      possessed by demons? why? I don't want to hurt my crush/boyfriend, I just like to think about them getting hurt. In my fantasies, I'm never the one hurting them, most of the time it will be his dad or a stranger. I would never hurt someone, especially my boyfriend or crush.

      I am NOT possessed by demons.

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  • Unimportant
    9 years ago

    People like you should wear a sign.

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    • Ellen-Scene
      9 years ago

      what type of sign? What should it say?

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      • Unimportant
        9 years ago

        Amm.. "Danger! Interact at your own risk!" ?

        Sorry, I am a very fucked up person myself, but fantasizing about your crush getting hurt? This is new territory to me.

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  • LIGHTHOUSE
    9 years ago

    My dominant girlfriend likes it too but not whipping like stuff.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    Probably not normal but I am like this too. I find persecution attractive...its like a reverse martyr complex. I also like when men are whipped beaten and bound whether in a sexual or not sexual setting. Consential, of course.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    9 years ago

    Interesting. Me too.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Mmm... You're such a sadist.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago

      Let me guess. You are into sadomasochism yourself.

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  • Energy
    9 years ago

    LOL. I'm the same way except I fantasize about being the one in pain as the one in love watches me. It's weird. I definitely don't find it normal.

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  • DubstepismyMJ
    9 years ago

    Well yes "misery loves company".

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