Is it normal that i like to get beat up?

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My boyfriend and I like to mess around. We slap, pinch, and bite each other. It can get pretty violent. It can really hurt sometimes too. This gives me a bunch of bruises on my arms, and people see them and tell me that's not a healthy relationship and to stop getting abused. We are not mad at each other. We just like to wrestle. I don't know why I like to do this. I grew up with older brothers who always used to beat me up, so could that be why I have such an urge to fight? My boyfriend is not abusive. I'm not a victim. We're just having fun. Am I sick for doing this?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I think you and Chris Brown would be a perfect match

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Sounds fun

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    • robbieforgotpw
      10 years ago

      I tend to get very gassy when wrestling
      **sulfurs the vicinity

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        What happens if you do Yoga?

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        • robbieforgotpw
          10 years ago

          I'm usually the only one left because everyone leaves

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    So he's never hit you harder than you thought appropriate?

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  • U.O.E.N.O.
    10 years ago

    Next thing you know you're having sex U.O.E.N.O. it.

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  • 3rdXsTheCharm
    10 years ago

    It sounds like fun to me. No worries!

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  • ObsessedWithReedus
    10 years ago

    I think as long as it's not abusive, and you're both enjoying it, it's alright.

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  • RebuiltByHumans
    10 years ago

    Of course not. This sounds vile. Terrible behaviour.

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  • kinkykitten
    10 years ago

    Im the same way its normal :)

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  • BellaJane
    10 years ago

    Well, it's your choice, but I would mind the bruises... It makes your tissue weaker...

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    • _Molotov_Cocktail_
      10 years ago

      If you think that play-fighting weakens the tissues, then you have obviously never been in the proximity of a Molotov cocktail explosion.

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      • BellaJane
        10 years ago

        Nope, never been.

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        • _Molotov_Cocktail_
          10 years ago

          Lucky you.

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  • bemah
    10 years ago

    That's just play fighting...unless of course your actually getting hurt and enjoying it, that would make you a masochist.

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