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My girlfriend (I am a lesbian) and i both like to punch each other in the face during sex. We have given each other black eyes and cuts. We both really enjoy pain and violence with each other but we know that it is not something most couples do. Is there something mentally wrong with us if we like to take it this far?
Fuck all you people hating on homosexuality. There's so much negativety in the world thanks to people like you. Let love prevail and get out of the stone age, It's 2011.
Furthest I've been is scratching, biting, pulling hair and spanking. Punching seems over the line... but then one person's finishing line is another's starting line.
If you both like it, no problem.
I'm not judging, neither should others. What you and your partner do behind closed doors are none of any one else's business. But since you ask for opinions, I'd have to say that these are fetishes associated with testosterone. Either too much or too little.
Too little: being a lesbian couple, you feel more masculine showing characteristics of violence.
Too much: too much testosterone could increase your attraction to violence as it does so for men. Watch the movie 'Fight Club' and you'll know what I'm talking about.
I would say it's normal and strange at the same time 50/50. If it gets you off, go for it. BUT keep in mind that it could be dangerous while having sex... Combined with the hormone and adrenalin rush you guys COULD get a little out of control and end up seriously hurting each other. You should definitely have boundaries (a safe word or such).
Dam shiznet! Stupid ipod!
I just pictured this an laughed to this.
How could this possibly turn on a person and make them wanna get jiggy in bed?
I don't know how normal it is, but I was with a girl who would play rough and she liked it. Sometimes she'd get beaten, tortured, and set on fire while being raped. Some of us do like to go pretty far, we'd get cuts, bruises, burns and it was fun. She was into rape and I like fire, so she'd wear a few layers of shirts that I could douse in lighter fluid and set on fire. This way she could burn for quite a while before it got too hot while pretending to play the burning rape victim, trying to put herself out while I tried to stop her.
It's a pretty common fetish. Don't feel bad now because of all these ignorant comments above this one.
Sexual arousal acts like an anaesthetic. A certain level of pain is pleasurable. I love my husband to dig his nails into me and bite me when we are having sex. It makes the arousal even stronger.
normal. but two words of advice: SAFE WORD
something to shout out when you are at your limmit or it goes too far to allert the other to stop
be concious of eachothers limits and look into BDSM circles. sounds like you are both masochists or sadists...
enjoy it, try to stay safe and don't do anything too severe :P
its called masochism - a part of the BDSM worldd - its a fetish . look it up , there is lots of others like you and its fine if you enjoy it , its not my thing its a little too extreme for me but i mean hey to each his own or in this case her . be safe and enjoy
guys it's not her or her friend's fault they're lesbians, I've heard some say it feels like you were born trapped in a girl's body. They're born that way (or maybe they become homosexual later on) but there's nothing wrong with homosexuality. Just like racism...big deal! They're skin is darker! Well big deal, they like their own gender what of it? Anyhoo it seems perfectly normal. I actually found out that a lot of people hurt themselves purposely while they masturbate because it makes it more intense during orgasm. Why not during sex? Sex can make you do some pretty whack stuff, but whatever feels good right?
Not even a little bit normal. You should get that checked the fuck out.
It is normal, It's called ''Sexual Masochism''
Sexual masochism refers to engaging about being beaten, bound, or otherwise made to suffer, resulting in sexual satisfaction.
More Info at: http://www.psychologytoday.com/conditions/sexual-masochism