Is it normal that i like to be alone?

Is it normal that I hate texting friends or talking to people on facebook or doing stuff with friends after school because I can't stand the social awkwardness? Don't get me wrong- I love being with my friends in class and break times, I just don't like having super close friends. I'm not disliked or bullied or anything, just introverted. My mum worries about me and thinks I have no friends but I'm pretty well liked and I have fun at school, I just prefer to do something more quiet in my own time.

Is this normal or am I a loner?

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88% Normal
Based on 90 votes (79 yes)
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  • PoisonFlowers

    So normal. Well, I'm like that anyway. You're a bit of a loner, but that's not a bad thing.

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  • Well you might me a little lonery but that's normal

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  • ziggy6894

    Not only is it normal, it can proove to be ideal. When I was getting my first college degree I felt the same way you describe but was afraid it was abnormal. My fear of being different led me to going out of my to be over social in my fraternity and all campus life. When I started my Masters program at the University, my body and mind were exhausted from trying to fight the natural impulse that tells us solitude is often needed. After discussing this with my thesis advisor, who has a phd in psychology, he advised me that those with the need for a good amount of time to themselves usually are the ones with a higher intelligence. Intelligence take reflection, even if you do not realize that is what you are doing, it probably is

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  • Polydactyl

    I always prefer to be alone than around people.

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  • schumacher

    People suck anyways.

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  • abbey02

    Omg I am totally the same way

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  • normal. i also like having my alone time. when people bother me when i want to be left alone i can be really annoyed.

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  • Sweetz

    Being alone is nice sometimes :)

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  • hey, me too. but sometimes i ask myself whether i like being alone because i prefer the solitude or are there external factors that lead me to it. like insecurity or something. and people around me are constantly trying to tell me it's not normal and that i should get more friends. so then i ask myself, are they the ones who are insecure, scared of being normal?

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  • sgbslp

    I just had a counselor tell me that it's perfectly ok not to want to be around a mob of people all the time. Then she explained that extroverts actually get energy from a crowd and an introvert is worm out by the crowd. It sounds like you have your friend time and alone time well balanced. We are all different. You're fine.

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  • soccerchick6

    It's totally normal. Friends are great. But being alone really gives you a chance to be you. That's my opinion anyway

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  • bad

    Im the same.....

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  • Valex

    I'm similar. I love being alone as well. I like having close friends and hanging out with them but only if it's one or two ppl. I hate being in large groups. And when I do hang out with friends I wanna go after like an hour or two.

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