Is it normal that i like this *not very handsome* guy?

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I like this guy called Chad, and he's popular, but that's not why I like him.
He's really funny, and he was really nice and cool to hang out with when I had him in my language class last year. He would always chat to me and my friend during class, come over to my table to beg for cookies (which I always brought to give to him), or just talk.

But he has like this "history" with girls. No, he's not violent or anything, it's just that he always likes the pretty, skinny, popular girls, and always BEGS them to date him. They usually reject him because no offense, he's not the hottest guy ever. But he's still popular.

And I started liking him this year, but he's starting to obsess over MY BFF Gabriella, begging her to date him. She hates him with all her heart. I really, really want to date him, or even just be friends with him like I did last year, but I don't really get the chance because he's popular and I'm just in the normal crowd. The popular kids always have this room to themselves and never, ever come out of it.

So can you tell me if its normal that I like him, and also, can you tell me how I should get him to ask me out, or even be friends with me again?

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  • KeyboardSolo
    13 years ago

    I have to doubt that he's as popular as you think. Popular people don't have to beg for dates (hell, no one should beg for dates. It's pathetic). And given that he begs for dates, I think it's a safe assumption that he doesn't do a lot of dating. Go for it. He'll probably be ecstatic just to have a girl interested in him. There's a decent chance it's never happened before.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It's normal to like him. He sounds like a cool guy.

    How you would get a date with him though is a tricky matter. If someone doesn't have those feelings for you, beyond badgering them nonstop or seducing them (not advised), there isn't much you can do to change his mind.

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  • Uzzie101
    13 years ago

    It's 100% normal to like him, shows you're not shallow. How to ask him out...dunno. Ask him in class? Or maybe you could ring him sometime, and slip it into the conversation. (I'm assuming you both have mobile phones). I don't see anything wrong with the girl asking out the guy, there's no use waiting around for him to make a move! So go for it.

    Good luck in your romance!

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