Is it normal that i like skinny women over healthy strong women.

I'm a 6,2 Italian and I try to make it a ritual to exercise daily. I wouldnt say I'm beefcake but I have some impressive mass on me. Anyway, I take pride in both my sex appeal and masculinity. There's nothing that turns me off more than a strongly built woman, any woman whose tall, overweight, or pretentious. I work too had to be the dominant and crave acknowledgement. I 'm entitled to recognition for my masculinity. Which brings me to my next point, skinny women are significantly disadvantaged compared to me. I'm strong, tall, and imposing. It makes me feel so manly to be responsible for protecting a women whose fragile and weaker than I am. Having a female dependent on me gives me an unfathomable drive, like I'm the alpha in every situation. Guys may understand this better than the women here. Normal, yes?

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51% Normal
Based on 41 votes (21 yes)
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  • dom180

    It's perfectly normal to like skinny women, but *you* are not normal. You don't sound like you respect the women you're attracted to at all (you actually want them to be "significantly disadvantaged", "fragile" and "weak"), and you sound really insecure. Think about why you have these feelings of needing to appear dominant. Think about why any other position in a relationship makes you feel so uncomfortable. Think about anything in your past that might be causing you to feel how you do.

    You already know your attitude is excessive, so do something about it. This isn't a normal conception of masculinity.

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    • I'm not discriminating against females, only I'm emotionally and sexually disinterested torwards all types but smaller females. I have female friends.

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      • dom180

        I don't think you are discriminating against women. I don't think you understand what I'm thinking. I think you deeply insecure and trying to mask it with displays of dominance.

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        • SkullsNRoses

          Preach.

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  • TrustMeImLying

    "It makes me feel so manly to be responsible for protecting a women whose fragile and weaker than I am."

    Allow me to translate

    "It makes me feel so dominant that I got appointed senator of an ant farm instead of California"

    "It makes me feel so manly getting drunk on on an appletini instead of 3 beers"

    "It makes me feel so strong carrying this 10lb dumbbell. RAWWWWR"

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    • NiniCool

      You're the best ! :D

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  • seekelp

    Do you live on the Jersey Shore?

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    • I live in Portland, Maine but I understand the reference. Not vey clever or amusing.

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      • seekelp

        I thought it was. It makes me feel stronger, like I'm the alpha in this situation.

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        • derpyderp

          Well played...

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        • Are you quoting me or making a statement?

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          • seekelp

            Both.

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  • animaguskid

    Honestly this sounds more like a type of fetish to me. I'm a female and I recognize the fact that I find men attractive partially because they are physically stronger and can protect me. On the other hand they are capable of over powering me and doing whatever they want. It sounds kinky but it's actually pretty damn sexy.
    I don't think the OP necessarily thinks little of these women he's just looking for a woman that compliments that sort of relationship. Where he can be the stronger one in the relationship, the masculine one.

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    • derpyderp

      I get you, most males do like to feel like the protector, but if the OP has as much "impressive mass" as he says then he should be physically stronger & therefore feel dominant with most girls.
      There should be no need to aim for "skinny, weak girls"

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  • Nokiot9

    "I'm entitled to recognition for my masculinity" wtf? When women say all men are pigs, YOU are who they're talking about.

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  • Lonely2

    Your feelings sound normal enough but the pretentious and narcissitic way in which you express them gives me cause for concern.

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  • ImHomy

    I think I understand you

    It is the concept of damsels in distress. Men find pride and satisfaction in being there for a girl who is in need. I have found myself attracted to vulnerable women, not so I could take advantage of them, but that I could be there for them, and in a way, "fix" them. I also enjoy when a woman relies on me in a relationship, it makes me feel like I matter. Moreover, since I am lean, I am more attracted to women of a build similar to me, because I feel she would "fit." Maybe the only difference between you and me is I love independent women. More than dependent ones. There is NOTHING that beats spending the rest of your life with a woman who could walk out anytime, could hold her own, yet chooses to stay with you. That's priceless

    But you... seem different. It seems like you have a conservative and old-fashioned ideal for women. But still... there is something off about your post that makes it disturbing. It is like I can envision you many years down the road to be the kind of person involved in domestic violence.

    Maybe you have miscommunicated what you actually intended to imply. A topic like this needs to be handled and conveyed delicately, if you don't -- well, the responses are your result

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  • Bobblahblah

    http://www.iriskyle.com/gallery/4images/data/media/64/_O5C1950wtmk_JGSOKPQDVF.jpg

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  • Goomats

    I am glad someone openly appreciates the skinny women. It seems nowadays people assume all skinny women are annorexic and think they're creepy. I am 5'4" 92 lbs and I'm definitely not annorexic and hopefully not creepy.

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    • TheTraumaWithin

      Anorexia isn't synonymous with underweight, but you need to evaluate your weight. I'm really concerned about you.

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      • Goomats

        I've been to the doctor about it. They did blood tests for diseases and thyroidal issues. Nothing showed up. I've tried to gain weight with drinking nutritional shakes before bed, etc., cannot gain any weight. I've felt insecure about my stature. Luckily enough, now I have a boyfriend who makes me feel better about my body (very nice and complimentary).

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  • thegypsysailor

    Skinny women need someone to love them, too. Thank you so much for buckling down and getting the job done, so that the rest of us don't have to. Good man.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Mwahahaha!!!

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    • thegypsysailor

      Boy oh boy. This new crowd just doesn't have a sense of humor do they? You all should loosen up a little bit or you all are going to die very young of stress related illnesses! dumbasses

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