Is it normal that i like rape play?

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I really love the idea of a man (someone I already have consented to sex with in the past) grabbing me from behind, not letting me know who he is, and blindfolding me. I would want to be completely tied up and forced into sexual acts with him, such as forcing me to suck on him or spreading my legs in order to let him roughly thrust in me.I love the thought of the pain it might invoke, and the feeling of helplessness. I love being dominated by a much stronger partner. Especially if he has only his sexual pleasings in mind.

I would love to find someone willing to do this. But I have a hard time telling my partner that I want to do this. Please tell me if anyone else finds this a turn on!

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Based on 15 votes (13 yes)
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  • SwickDinging
    5 years ago

    This is normal, except for the "forcing you to suck on him" part. A rapist presumably wouldn't do that for fear of you biting his dick off. But my unrelenting realism and negativity doesn't need to be a part of your sexual fantasies. You go have fun.

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  • Lestat565
    5 years ago

    It’s not my thing but as long as it’s not actually rape who am I to judge

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    I often fantasize about being raped and murdered and left in a ditch somewhere.

    It stems from my past and it's normal for someone with my past. Normal for someone who had a vanilla upbringing?? I doubt it.

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  • paracetamol
    5 years ago

    Oh this is so hot, if not a troll.

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    • girlnextdoor_11
      5 years ago

      Not a troll haha

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  • kelili
    5 years ago

    Done this once with my husband when we were still dating. Not exactly what you described though.

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  • TS
    5 years ago

    I feel like this post is the opening salvo of a long con that ends with some poor isitnormal user meeting an anon for sex and getting their nuts cut off by Nigerian smugglers.

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    • girlnextdoor_11
      5 years ago

      This made me laugh wayyyy harder than I should have.

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      • TS
        5 years ago

        Yeah, the nervous laughter of someone who knows they've been read like a book you mean

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        • girlnextdoor_11
          5 years ago

          Of course

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  • bfus
    5 years ago

    I've done this before, but it's only something you should do with someone you trust completely.

    Remember to be safe, sane and consensual. Use a safe word, etc.

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    • girlnextdoor_11
      5 years ago

      Exactly my thoughts. Thanks

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      • bfus
        5 years ago

        If you're struggling with bringing up your fantasy with your partner, you might give this a go:

        http://mojoupgrade.com/

        Both you and your partner take the test privately, then it will compare your answers and show you only what you're both into. That way you won't spook him with something he wouldn'n like.

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        • SwickDinging
          5 years ago

          This is awesome, thank you

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        • girlnextdoor_11
          5 years ago

          That's perfect. Thank you so much!

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