Is it normal that i like older men????

Is it normal to go out secretly with your teacher ???? We have been going out for some time but it's getting serious i want to have sex with him now and I think he knows it -none of my friends know about any of this and I don't think he would of told anyone because it would cost him his job.
He's just been waiting for the right time .
He picks me up and takes me to school with him and drops me back off home after he's finished his
Paper work and all at school.
But sometimes we go straight after school and get ice-cream or pizza and park up in a private street were not much people or cars come down and and hook up and talk .

So does anyone think I should do it if he starts heading that way????.

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Based on 315 votes (169 yes)
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Comments ( 24 )
  • Darkoil

    You sound fairly immature which raises the question why is this man interested in you. Even if you are old enough in the eyes of the law to be having sexual relationships this man has abused his position of authority by grooming one of his students. I'm only 23 and I could not have an emotional let alone a sexual relationship with someone that is still in school so it leads me to believe that this man either has emotional issues and finds it hard to connect with people his own age or more likely he is a predator with intentions from the very start to get you into bed.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Its normal to be attracted to older people, but there are few things in your post that hit me the wrong way. First off, are you a minor? The way you word this strikes me that you are still in high school or possibly in an even younger grade. Even if you are of age, I don't think its a good idea for students to go out with their teachers. There are many schools that have policies against this and I'm guessing that this might be the case since you stated that he could lose his job if the relationship got out. I suggest wanting until you are no longer his student to continue to pursue the relationship. If you're a minor, I suggest ended the relationship and waiting until you're of age to start the relationship back up or you can report him.

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  • oohunnybunnyoo

    i think its normal to be interested in older men. however i would keep my hands off teachers or working partners. its so awkward if things dont work out plus you could get these men to loose their job and i dont think you want that to happen.

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  • Gravy

    Absolutely correct Darkoil.

    Fark me drunk, he's not your kindergarten teacher is he, lubbing you up with all the icecream?

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    • Gravy

      Just to clarify, I see no problem with age differences, I would be a complete hypocrite. As long as it is within the law of your land.

      It is concerning for professionals in positions where they can influence the vulnerable and or naive to be courting the same persons whom care they have been entrusted.

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  • Imsupernormal

    Just go on ahead and fuck his brains out. Fuck what others think.

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  • dicky1234432

    if you want to have sex with him you should totally do it, (only if you are a legal age that is) it is hard for him to know the limits so if you want to fuck, the next time you are kissing drop your hand on his cock and totally take control

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  • JustinS

    Nothing wrong. I used to have sex with a couple of my teachers

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  • maxtor

    quite normal for some women think older men are matured and quite financially secure so they go for them.

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  • act123

    I should also add that in the past experience of myself and my friends dating younger women (over 18) is not usually for the conversation though they may sometimes have thought so.

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  • act123

    Ok, I look at this thing b/c like everyone else I find it interesting but I had to sign up and post when I saw your question.

    Let's get the first thing out of the way. There is nothing wrong with two consenting adults being into each other regardless of age.

    That having been said what worries me, and I apologize if I am wrong, is that you sound like you are still in high school and in the context what he is doing is wrong both in a professional context and larger moral one.

    I am an ex high school teacher and he could be fired or suspended based on what you have already stated. If he were to engage in a sexual relationship with you he would be charged with statutory rape and lose his job.

    These rules exist to protect you. What he is doing in not right and you should tell someone because you are probably not the first, or if you are, you may not be the last.

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  • esmith62301

    I think it is very normal older guys know how to have interesting conversation in addition to their knowledge about lot of subjects.

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  • Millie_the_evil_saint

    No, I don't think you should have sex with him.

    It's a schoolgirl's dream of many girls your age: to get it on with their teacher. But it's definitely not what it's cut out to be. Best if you break up with him, and keep it a dream. If he really loves you, he'll understand and wait till you are of legal age and out of school.

    Put him to the test. If he doesn't wait for you, he never loved you. Real love lasts for years. And I seriously doubt this man is truly in love with you. But still, he could be: only time can tell.

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  • randypete

    older guys are very hot he will last for hours enjoy

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  • Uncle

    You sound like you're in highschool, Princess. Why don't you find someone nearer your own age?

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  • Rihanna

    depends on how old you and him are??

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  • JustinBiebsFan#1

    is this your teacher?

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FlfK37jAGho

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  • Fabulous

    Haha not Idaho. U da ho haha potato state

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  • WasThatAMoth

    It is perfectly normal for a young woman to feel attracted to an older man. It's also perfectly normal for an older man to be attracted to a younger female. But I caution you that you should not be having sexual relations with this man if you are under age. You do not want to have serious problems coming toward both of you if people found out. Now do I think it is wrong for both of you to be in a relationship? Not really, I think its kinda cute. But others would surely not share the same feelings as I do as can be seen by some of the comments. Based on what you have mentioned, it seems you are still really young. So, take it slow. Be careful as well, you don't really know if this guy can be a total "creep". I'm pretty sure I contradicted myself in a few ways but oh well. Listen to other people's opinion and make some decisions. In the end, its up to you.

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  • ygrowup

    Very normal for a older guy to be attracted to a younger girl, but to act on those feelings with a student, can only ruin his future and career! You should distant yourself till thus relationship can be properly be sought after and love and lust can be legal and unregrettable

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  • Justsomejerk

    How old are you?

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  • quentari

    How old are you, and what's your schooling level? university and TAFE teachers are usually okay to date their students, but highschool and lower are definitely not.

    It's normal to be attracted to older men, or men of authority but I can't give you any extra advice until I know your age, his age, what country and what your schooling level is.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    I think it's normal but since society is so judgemental (Re: Many comments above) just be very discrete.

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