Is it normal that i like old men while being a young man myself

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I'm a male, 32 years of age. I'm visually handicapped. I'm not very good-looking and don't focus much on looking good; my hair has also turned grey a good deal. I like to remain faithful and sincere toward other people I come into contact with. I tend to be rather naive at times. I'm looking for a man aged 55 or older for a genuine, sincere relationship. I'm seeking companionship, love, closeness, and warmth--but NOT ANAL SEX itself; I do want sharing his bed however. Is what I like normal? Can I find someone suitable who could cater to my yearning? If so, how and where? If no, then what should I do to find my way around it?

Yes and a positive trait 5
Yes, but not a good trait 2
No, an abnormal trait 2
May be 3
Serious personality disorder 0
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  • moose89
    13 years ago

    One thing that I've learned is that human sexuality is one of the most complex things on earth. It's never really what you think it is. I am straight, but other women (mainly ones I know) turn me on. I think you're pretty normal, and I give credit to you for bringing this subject up. It could be that you've just lacked male bonding experiences in the past and are trying to experience that now. I can see why you would be attracted to older men: maturity, experience, stability, knowledge. I'm POSITIVE that you can find an older man out there who would like to have a relationship with a younger man. There are people of all walks of life out there. We're never going to have a complete understanding of human psychology, but in the time being, we just need to go with the flow and do what makes us happy.

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