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I'm 19 and i am attracted to old men. It sounds gross, but older men just appeal to me more. I'd be willing to date someone around 45.
Damn. I'm 62 and I LOVE young girls, but if you think 45's old, then I'm as good as dead.
It's great that you feel that way, for there is a lot of older guys that have a attracted to younger women. With you out there, means there really is someone for everyone out there
I'm 23 and my man is 41. We were instantly attracted to each other and still are. I think this man is the sexiest man I've ever been with. He is mature and treats me like a princess. He's the first guy in his 40's I've ever been with. They are also way better at sex when they are older and more experienced. We fuck like rabbits lol. Its very normal and totally hot
I agree with you. They are much more attractive than guys our age. they just are
My boyfriend is 53 and has a great body.The first thing I noticed about him was how good he looked in his jeans and his sexy hairy chest peaking out of his shirt.Not to mention his gorgeous baby blue eyes.We share the same interests.He is old enough to be my father but looks younger then his age since he takes great care of himself.The first non celebrity I ever fantasized about.I have never fantasized about any of my other boyfriends before.He's an incredible lover.
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But then why are girls attracted to older men, and older men attracted to younger girls? Generally speaking, a younger girl is more resilient physically than an older woman. From a biological perspective, this means that at the onset of puberty, she can start having children, and her chances of survival are increased because of her youth. The opposing side to that is why on earth a younger girl would prefer to mate with an older male. Mainly strength. An older male will have established hunting trails, and knowledge how to defend himself and his "family." A younger male will have a more difficult time protecting/bringing food home simply because he isn't as experienced. Obviously back in those days life spans were quite short. But we haven't really evolved out of that yet. It was quite common for 12 year old girls to mate with 25-30 year old males. More chances to get her pregnant, more ability to provide, more potential offspring.
Not true. Most people that survived to 18 died at old age. Average life expectancy at *birth* like 30. Or 28. And 12? G-d that's sick. The Stone Age peoples were hard in ways I can't understand (as in how prisoners and slum/favela/shantytown dwellers are hard, and that's not a good thing), probably a huge fraction of adults died violently but they'd have to be very hard up to even consider a very developed 12 year old. Isn't it highly harmful for such small people to give birth, their periods are irregular and not good or something, if they've even started, and likely to waste a chance of dying from childbirth on premature Frankensteinish babies? Though if you just started being able to make sperm then that would be a good idea. The baby might have a smaller chance to survive but you might be dead soon.
four years difference is nothing, however a young 19yr old will b used and abused by older men that are just fucked up and creepy.
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Funny how that's normal, but if an 18 year old and a 14 year old like each other, it's automatically fucked up.
its all normal. 18 and 14, 20 - 60, 50-19, 21-40????? .... just wondering what age is the cut of point? as in where do you draw the line of what ages are allowed with what ages? The only thing i can think of is when one party isn't concenting OR itsn't old enough to understand what is going on...i have had friends of 13 in the past who were totally developed and having sex. One size doesn't fit all....oo err missus
Seeing that I'm also attracted to older people, it would be very hypocritical of me to say no.
I'm the same I think it's because I'm scared of being cheated on an I associate this more with younger guys
No very normal, but it is increasingly common.
Girls seem to like that kinda thing.
What about a 21 year-old? We are mature ;) and sort of greying in some cases.
Firstly...I dislike even discussing age as it really is unimportant in love and doesn't matter - society seems to think it does and has everyone subconsciously believe through media (many perceive media as truth and normality) two people together should be the same age. I've fancied people of all ages - I just like people who i like, no rules, no guide! I have no rules for myself about hair colour, race, ethnicity, gender etc.
I started seeing my boyfriend two years ago...when i was 18, he was 45. He has a such a beautiful young soul, and looks quite young for his age too, he's so cuttteeee. We are together now and really love each other. I find it funny to think people would say it is wierd or wrong because to me its a normal relationship where we both feel equal and have lots in common and have good times.
We share the same taste in most things. We are both extremely musical and quite spiritual. I have a mature taste in a lot of things and am mature in ways with understanding people, empathy and looking at situations etc, but i still have that energy which he has kept also...quite childish and fun that allows for a sudden burst of having a race in the rain round the park laughing.
We have to ignore funny looks we occasionally get when we walk down the street holding hands, they are mostly from girls round my age...mainly women and there are many possibilities and analogies as to why this is but that's another can of worms. Somethings are difficult and nerve wracking like introductions and our freinds because even freinds we love have judgements and thats fine, its just difficult. We both understand this and we dont let it get in the way much. We have a relationship just like any other couple who love each other xx
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It's probably a maturity thing and that people generally go for a partner that subconsciously reminds them of their parents.