Is it normal that i like my teacher?

I think the majority of us has all liked a teacher at one point. But I wouldn't go as far as the notes.

Privately crushing on a teacher, even though in reality she will have no interest in some teen-boy she is teaching, is one thing. Leaving sexually loaded notes and lobbying her with your friends is ridiculous.

That she has simply ignored you in hopes you'd calm down and go away should not be misinterpreted as interest. She has likely consulted with other faculty on how to deal with a horny boy and this is what they came up with - to ignore you - for now. No doubt your notes are quite a chuckle in the faculty lounge.

But you have also crossed a line into harassment, and if you persist there will be consequences - none of which will be along the lines of the silly fantasies of romance that are entirely yours. Smarten up.

If you are a high school student I wouldnt leave the notes, even if you are a college student. She might take it as sexual harassment and might be building up a case against you so i would stop doing that.

I am a human sexuality educator.

Yes, it's normal to have feelings for teachers. I think everyone at some point had a crush on at least one teacher in their life, regardless of sexual orientation. But you shouldn't be leaving notes on her desk.

The fact is, she has so much to lose by you doing such things. Whenever I teach, I'm not allowed to be alone with a student for any reason. This is because there have been a rising amount of claims of inappropriate behavior between students and teachers over the last several decades. Doors must always be kept wide open, and if you keep leaving notes on her desk, she will involve the school counselors, and you will be removed from her class, or even possibly moved to another school.

Don't let this crush ruin both of your lives. There's 7 billion people on this earth. And so far, you've only met a few thousand in your lifetime. In a year or two, you'll find someone else to crush on hardcore. And it will be someone that's single, has nothing to lose by being with you, interested in you, and is around your age.

Stop leaving the notes. It's not a good idea and it can go both ways. She might considered this sexual harassment and there's a chance that she might be wrongly accused of having a sexual relationship with her student. If you want to have a relationship with her, wait until you are no longer a minor and her student. Another thing, is that your friends need to stop pressuring her. It's rude and inappropriate.

I have a huge crush on my game design teacher but I don't let him know. What you're doing is considered creepy and its sexual harassment.

She is ignoring you for a reason. Stop sexually harrasing your poor teacher. She will lose her job if you continue. Your friends are also messed up for pressuring her. Stop what you are doing if you care at all about her well being. If you do not your a selfish little shit and you do not care about her at all. If you truly loved her you would stop bothering her. Leave your poor teacher alone. She is ignoring you for the sake of being professorial and not being a pedophile and fucking her kids. LEAVE HER ALONE YOU JERK!

creepy monster under your bed!

It's understandable that you would develop feelings for your teacher - teachers (good ones, at least) serve as wonderful role models, mentors, and friends in our lives. I think teaching is one of the most admirable professions one can take up (especially considering the abysmal pay) and any great teacher that has made a difference in your life is completely worthy of respect and admiration.

Now, the tricky part is that your feelings for her put her in a bit of an awkward position. In order for your teacher, the wonderful woman that she is, to keep doing what she loves to do... she cannot reciprocate your feelings. She would lose her job, and if she has made this much of an impact on you, imagine how many other lives she can change through teaching, provided she keeps her job!

I understand that it may be painful, but one of the things about pursuing love is that it doesn't really work out when it's a one-way street. I'm not saying that your teacher doesn't care for you, but to expect her to jeopardize her career and to start loving you back simply because you love her... wouldn't be fair. If you care for this woman, truly, think about what she deserves: a job that she loves, and the right to choose who she loves romantically. If it's not you, it may hurt, but she deserves these things.

Also, try not to take the hostility of the other posters to heart. You clearly do not mean any harm, and you're simply showing affection. Just try to remember that going too far could cost her her job, and that would probably mean her happiness as well. Sometimes the best way to show someone you love them is to let them go.

okay that why their soo much sheat going on. your teacher she is in a lot of trouble because she doesn't stop the problem and well just let it o before she gets a felony or maybe jail because your a minor and that's illegal. you just don't learn!

For fuck's sake, don't shoot her husband. Pamela Smart will never get out of prison.

What I'm saying is..try to ween down on the notes..just fantasize in private (but keep that to a minimum too because your body remembers these experiences and acts out in reality..more of a social issue for men than women..given that you have that thing between your legs that seems to have a mind of its own.) ..and people can notice it. Stay calm around her, but get your work done. ..and maybe apologise or just let the past be.

The teacher/student relationship is supposed to be kept professional. It IS normal that you like this woman, but if you think about the reasons for not actually telling her.. ..there are a lot; teachers have gone to jail (a career and financially ruining experience) because of inappropriate relationships with students..you wouldn't want that. You wouldn't want to wreck her relationships with existing family who can and do feel very strongly about those things..you wouldn't want to be responsible either for a possible pregnancy if you are just a student..so fantasize in private. I have a similar relationship that I have to be on guard about..which would be very inappropriate if I tried to seduce this person, so steer clear. Keep your mind mostly busy with business..that will help. ..meaning school/work.

Absolutely as above! But outside school.....