Is it normal that i like my best friend but love my boyfriend?

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I feel horrible. I'm in love with my boyfriend but also lIke my best friend. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and lately we've been coming very distant from each other. Being around my best friend makes the pain from my relationship feel better but I started gaining feelings for him. He already told me that I'm like a sister to him so to tell him how I feel seems impossible. And the worst thing my boyfriend and best friend are friends. I need help. Should I keep stringing my boyfriend along or should I let my best friend go. I need the advice please and thank you.

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  • Jjpartyka23
    9 years ago

    If you truly loved the first guy you wouldn't get feelings for the next. Been with my girlfriend 2 years and haven't so much as thought of another woman like that. That's how I know she's the one.

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  • omgcatz
    9 years ago

    Stop talking to the best friend if he's threatening your relationship. Always try to fix what you have first before you move on to something else just because you're bored.

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  • donotmockme
    9 years ago

    You don't have to lose your best friend. I think you need to work it out with your boyfriend first or let him go. If you truly loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't have feelings for someone else. If you're satisfied in love, you never even feel anything for another again.

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    You should probably tell both of them. There's a chance that you won't have to lose either of them. The feelings you're having for your bestfriend are most likely because you feel less connected to your boyfriend.

    You and your boyfriend need to talk about your relationship and figure out what why there is distance between you.

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