Is it normal that i like my best friend

Me and my friend have been cool since fall semester. We 've been friends for almost a year. I started off liking him but that didn't go anywhere so I dropped it. We became closer on a friendship level. He was always there for me and I was always there for him. I dated other people and so did he. We remained good friends. We talk everyday. Especially since the summer started. We talk on the phone every night for hours at a time. He text me "good morning" the very next day and everything. My feelings came back and I let it be known. He said he liked me too but never really did anything after. He distanced himself from me for a day and then things went back to normal. Im confused. He told me not get romantically involved with anybody last night on the phone and I was confused. I know i have these strong feelings and desires but Im scared to speak out because I don't want it to ruin our friendship. I dont know what to do. Is this normal?

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89% Normal
Based on 36 votes (32 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • Captain_Kegstand

    Go for it, tell him you want to be with him! Girls don't always have to wait for the guy to make a move. In fact, a lot of guys prefer just the opposite!

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  • GuessWho

    This is so normal that it gets asked/posted on this site at least once per day.

    For every day that is skipped, there is one where it is asked 2 or more times.

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  • flutterhigh

    "Wow, I really love all these banal best friend romance stories!"
    --Nobody on this site ever

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    • elohaha

      Fuck you (:

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  • SharP

    Fuck all of this social graces non sense.
    Just tell him that you want to date him and if he doesnt like it then to hell with him. You wouldnt want to be a with a guy that cant make up his fucking mind anyway.

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    • elohaha

      Truee

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  • Allistalla

    I want to awnser but your a chick right ? " OOyou didnt put that ..anyhwo soudns like he likes you back n bestfreinds will sometimes end up liking each other

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  • I don't see how people fall for friends. Im friends with people because i'm not interested in them in that way.

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  • ygrowup

    Many guys you just have to take the lead and take baby steps

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