Is it normal that i like my best friend.

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So here's the deal, I met this guy while at college and we have become very close since. I'm 20 and he's 21. We sleepover alot, hang alot and all that. I like spending time with him alot.
I told him that I think I might be gay back at college, but he's still remained friends with me. I don't even know whether he's gay, bi or straight for that matter.
I can't help but imagine what he might look like completely nude, and how he might react if I told him I love him. I really value our friendship and I would not like to see it ending. But at the same time, I like him very much...
To complicate things further, he's traveling to another country to attend a university next Month and I'll soon be missing the chance to tell him how I feel about him... Is it normal? What should I do?

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  • black_houzi
    13 years ago

    Tread carefully, I went for one of mine and now we barely talk, sort of here and there chances we speak. If the guy is going to leave then why not? If he likes you then good. If not then you won't have the problem of constantly seeing him and being depressed; sure it'll be hard but know there are probably others similar.

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  • toofgod
    11 years ago

    I am a male and you may have screwed up when you said you were lez. Some times when a man hasn't the chance to establish a potential bond with a woman early on in a relationship you then become unobtainable in his mind at that time and then if something changes over time it then becomes your responsibility to take back the statement you made about being a lezbo. You liked him from the very beginning that's probably why you said you were lezbo because you wanted him to pursue you. Ok, now I'm just babbling. Either do one of two things. 1) look him dead in the eyes and make sure the moment is right and simply say "want to fuck" OR tell him you lied to him about being a lesbian (regardless whether or not you did) but don't expect to be pursued thereafter. YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.

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    • jayonk
      11 years ago

      I'm a guy. Not a girl. So I couldn't be a lesbian.. lol.

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      • peterr
        10 years ago

        I thought so too. I like you and this guy will too. Go for him and if he doesn't want you then cum to me.

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