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i'm am 37 years old and married. my wife is 28 years of age, shes sexy and pretty. what i am concerned is that i like to masturbate more than i like to have sex with my wife. even when we finished having sex, sometime i go to the comfort room to masturbate before i go to bed. is this normal?
My wife and I have been married for 35 years. We stay fit and still turn each other on. For the past several years, we've found that getting each other off by hand is more pleasurable than intercourse. I always play with her first by using coco oil on her breasts and pussy. Once she's aroused, she'll use her vibrator and masturbate while I finger her. Once she's satisfied, we change positions and she returns the favor. We usually have the lights on. After all of these years, my wife's nude body still excites the hell out of me. This works for us. I was always a "quick cummer". She is the opposite. I could never satisfy her after I got off. So many times she pretended she was happy and went to sleep. This way, our sex sessions last upwards of 30 minutes rather than 20 seconds.
Self enjoyment doesn't have to stop just because you have a wife. Those things (masturbation and your mutual sex-life) can run simultaneously.
I don't think its that abnormal. Some people just prefer masturbation over sex.