Is it normal that i like girly looking men?

I'm totally straight, and I've never even liked the thought of finding a woman sexually attractive in my life.. however, for some reason I'm really attracted to men with girly attributes. Whether this is long hair (preferbly dreadlocked), sterotypically girly peircings e.g. monroe, belly button and nose, and girly faces - as in not very defined and petite features... Or wearing weird 'way out' girly clothes. Is this normal or do others find the same?

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Comments ( 17 )
  • Sahshagirl09

    im a fem guy
    im straight,
    i am gonna get my belly button peirced
    and both ears
    i wear make up alot and i guess you could say im a lesbian in a mans body but some people might get confused with that.
    so yeah i guess your more normal than i am

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  • Celeste

    [Yum]I am repulsed by woman in a sexual sense, but I love girly guys<3 Look up the japanese singer Gackt to get what i mean~

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  • what if he has moobs? hahaha

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  • gako

    You're werid. Who picks a weak spioled girly girl as her soulmate/bf/hubby. I rather have a strong hulky man. Pick me up at night and wrap his huge muscles all around me....lmao yum :)

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  • SugarBitch

    I have a bit of both. My boyfriend is pretty well built, works out and that, but he wears tight clothes a lot, and he loves doing his hair, and occaisionally puts eyeliner on (yum)
    he's pretty camp, as you've probably guessed ;)
    Makes a great shopping buddy too!

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  • PURPLE_KOOL_AID

    This is normal for young girls and tweens but most of us grow out of that way of thinking.
    Maybe you're not fully sexually matured, or perhaps you have some repressed bisexual tendencies.

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  • G-rodX

    How did i get here.... :(

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  • jessicia16

    its not normal .... you simply have very bad taste and probably havent ever been close to your father or known a "REAL MAN"

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  • Normallyabnormal

    I find myself preferring men with a strong feminine side as well. Really manly man completely turn me off.

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  • lemonmelon

    I like more feminine looking guys, but there are exeptions, and I don't like it when one takes it too far.

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  • ValiereX

    Perfectly normal. I read a study that showed women are drawn to men with more feminine features rather than the chiseled square-jawed manly men that used to be idealized decades ago. Subconsciously, we assume men with feminine features have lower testosterone levels and therefore are probably less aggressive, better fathers, etc. This may not always be true, so be careful.

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  • Sorry - your sexual identity was ...

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  • SmokieeJoe

    Oh my god ! You too ! Thank christ.
    I have a thing for girly, gay and camp men !!
    I'm totally straight, but I love feminine looking guys :-) x

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  • purplemouse101

    That's your own thing I suppose, I just recently found out that I am really attracted to feminine men. Not like piercings, but clean cut, preppy wearing clothes, neat.

    And I'm sure you could also base your decisions on personality.

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  • Phokisss

    Yeah its normal. Why do you think all these psudo-post-emo scene kids wear girl pants and eye-liner?
    Its not because they want to be called a faggot and riticuled by other people.
    its because girls think its hot.

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  • db1988

    some girls like the more fem looking guys.. now as far as the girly piercings i think that may be pushing a little you wont find to many straight men that have girly tendeices it may be time to sit down and think what it is that you truely want and how you feel maybe some where deep inside you do find women attractive you may not just be ready to admit it yet or it could be the men that you are dating that are more mucho arent giving you the woman attention you need not soft enough often what we like most is bc we're missing it in another part of our life...

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  • Kyurois

    It's totally normal, while not my personal tastes I know plenty of girls who are just like you. @ValiereX, I have heard the same thing. Feminine features usually mean lower testosterone, ergo a less aggressive partner. But I have also read that most people like to choose partners that have similar features to their own, which could play in on the women liking effeminate looking men.

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