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I've been hurt badly by guys in the past, and lately I've been thinking a lot about being with girls. I think it's because I don't feel that I can trust a guy with my heart anymore.
yeah, i feel the same way but at the opposite end. I just don't take girlz seriously anymore, but i didn't turn gay :)
wow, i wrote the same thing before reading the comments. i completely agree with you. girls are more likely to have guys flirting with them all the time or ex boyfriends they don't want out of their life, and my exes gave into them. sure as hell doesn't mean i'm going to start dating men.
You're not alone, but at the same time, it is a problem that needs addressing.
If you are being driven away from men due to past experiences and find yourself more attracted to women, then you need to see a professional who can reprogram your thought process. Perhaps through cognitive behavioral therapy even. You need to learn to trust men again, and if you can't do it by yourself, then you need help.
Also, make no mistake: A woman can hurt you just as badly as a man can, even if it is done in a different manner. It's foolish to think that 1, 10, or 100 men can represent an entire gender. You'll find the one you deserve eventually!
You are over-the-top in the department of huge and distorted generalizations if you think that issues of trust, hurt and betrayal are simple matters of whether you hang with with guys or girls.
Girl's actually cheat more than men belive it or not.. If I was u I would just take a break from relationships for awhile until u meet someone u do trust..
i'm a guy and i feel the exact same way about girls... doesn't mean i'm going to turn gay.
I knew someone just like this, well lets just say a women can hurt you as badly as a man can as people have said.
I feel like some of you misunderstood me. I haven't sworn off guys; it's not like I decided that they all must be terrible because of one bad experience. I know that not all guys are the same. It's just that I started acknowledging feelings for girls, and I attribute that to my bad experiences with guys, whether that is the root of it or not. It's not like I made some silly broad generalization and decided that I'd never be with another guy again. The idea of a guy just doesn't appeal to me so much anymore, and that's the best reason I can come up with as to why.
You can get hurt by any gender. I'm a lesbian and I've been hurt by women just as badly as a man can... Being with a girl will not change if you will hurt or not
I totally get what you're saying. I was molested by a boy when I was younger, and for a while I thought I liked girls. As it turns out, I find that girls piss me off, so for a while I felt all alone. My best guy friend helped me out of that funk though. I think its because he's straight,but he's pretty girl like. He helped me trust guys again by not ever hitting on me ad just being there for me.
This problem is being blow out of proportion!
To many lesbian go out and blabber that being with another girl is perfect you can find love and hate with any gender. all that all guys are pigs etc Bullshit!
I've been with my girlfriend for what 3yrs now? never had a problem! you just been with the wrong dude