Is it normal that i like for my wife to show her legs and underwear?

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Last year my 27 year old wife and I went to a night club in Aruba. The emcee had my wife come on stage under the pretense of winning a contest. It turned out to be a prank where compressed air from the floor blew her skirt up above her waist. I was turned on by the audience's yells and whistles as she desperately tried to pull her dress down to cover her panties. At first she was humiliated and embarassed. The emcee complimented her legs as being beautiful and gave her a prize. The next day we both admitted that this was a turn on. Now she has started wearing dresses to her swing dance club for me. I love to hear comments when her legs are frequently exposed as she is flipped and spun during swing dances. The problem is that I want it to stop with just light exhibitionism, but last night she was flipped by a partner who caught her with his hand on her panties. She was ok with that as she thought it was inadvertent.

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  • jizzface
    11 years ago

    ur basically asking if its normal that your wifes body turns you on?......OF COURSE IT IS! thats the way its suppost to be, love your wife, (love her legs) its the law of marriage :)

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  • Phycokitty
    11 years ago

    its probably the feeling of knowing that while other men want her you have her. I like making men jelous of my master

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  • VotoEvil
    3 years ago

    Dude your question really turned me on! fully hard! I also have a long-time fantasy of seeing my girlfriend getting unknowingly/unexpectedly exposed on stage.

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  • randypete
    11 years ago

    even better when she dose not wear any panties

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  • kaki
    11 years ago

    maybe you just don't want other guys looking at her like that see if she will dress like that for you and only you in private ok.

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  • LastknownJohn
    11 years ago

    does it turn you on? The fact that the other guy probably was turned on by seeing her panties, and may want more? How will you feel if it turns her on to be wanted by other men?

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  • englishcowboy81
    11 years ago

    if your like me the idea of other people looking at your wife and wanting to do to her the things you do turns you on but the thought of her actually doing it our not so keen on...that being said if after her dance lessons etc when her body has been exposed you give her raw hard passion that completely thrills her and has her wanting to flash again i doubt she will stray win win

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    • LastknownJohn
      11 years ago

      I think what you talk about is a common fetish or fantasy. You like the idea of other men wanting to fuck your wife, and her enjoying it. But you don't want her to actually go through with it. I think many of us have that same one. I know I really enjoy having sex with my wife thinking about it from time to time.

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      • englishcowboy81
        11 years ago

        i do aswell i often think about the idea that while i am having sex with her that there is probably a queue of men that would like to be in her ass while i am poundling her pussy. To comment on your other reply the idea that she is turned on by a stranger wanting her turns me on but only because i get to fuck her not them

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        • plum6
          11 years ago

          I agree as well, I love it when my girl dresses slutty when going out and I enjoy it when other guys show interest, even if she herself acts flirtatious towards them.

          I do tend to step in to make clear that she is taken pretty early on though. I guess the key to making this work is to find out to what extent you find it a turn-on and at what point it becomes too much.

          I would personally not feel comfortable with a guy touching my girl's panties, but i would enjoy a compressed air scenario as described.

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  • toad25
    11 years ago

    As noted above--We sought couseling which is now completed, and we have found other non sexual activities which produce the endorphins to produce just as much pleasure. At the completion the head psychiatrist of the institution where we sought counseling pointed out that many leaders get into situations where they need the endorphins to feel better and relive work stress. As he pointed out the recent general head of intelligence and his biographer were graduates of West Point and real professionals. The shocking actions that they used to produce the endorphins for uplifting and life enjoyment could be due to the fact that they found themselves working under a Bozo commander in chief who was born in Kenya, grew up in Indonesia, and was not nearly as well educated in military and intelligence affairs.

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  • toad25
    11 years ago

    Final Disposition: We are the authors of this question. Because it had become a highlight of our lives, yet we seemed to be losing control, we sought professional analysis and counseling. We accepted the explanation and mutual ideas to end the fiasco--and it turned out to be both a problem and fiasco. Basically many of our activities are based on pleasures derived from endorphins and neurotransmitters associated with our brain. The euphoria produced by the activity of one person may be a normal response for one person and not for another. There are too many factors to mention here. Also all people need some degree of morality to survive. There is also much yet to be learned about the role of neurotransmitters in pleasure. Basically while this scenario can produce pleasure, the end result can be devastating in too many ways. Not only could our relationship be lost, but this could lead to criminal activity of others--although we felt that we could limit our result to the pleasures of light exhibitionism. In brief we are now training our bodies to release endorphins in response to morally reasonable sports and activites to promote our relationship. Pleasure here is a normal feeling in a practice where the final outcome would be one of devastation.

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  • zariena28
    11 years ago

    She is right to be okay with the other guy touching her on the panties. There is nothing wrong about letting her experiment a little (or a lot).

    What's important is her love is yours only.
    Sex or partially sexual acts with other men is only sex, not love.

    Let her be free to be felt up by others or to engage in sexual acts with others, and you will start to enjoy this new spark of deviation too eventually.

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