Is it normal that i like being hit on by my own gender?

I was at a party this week. Everyone left except for me and this one other guy, (whom I didn't know was gay). We were sitting on the balcony talking and sh*t. I was drinking whiskey, he had a beer. He kept insisting that I drink more and more. I didn't know what his problem was, I was trying to chill out and enjoy my cigarette. He pointed at some weight lifting equipment inside the apartment and wanted to know if I could lift it, I told him that I was too drunk to try and kept enjoying my bottle. I finished my bottle and a friend and the gay dude's sister were outside waiting for me. We then left to her apartment and stayed the night. When I woke up, I thought about it and learned that day that the guy I was talking to was gay. puuuuuhh. But for some reason, I think I felt, well, like I enjoyed it or something and if it wasn't for the straight friends that I hang out with, and my current reputation, and not to mention, what my parents would think, I might have let him well... you see my point???? In my mind I'm straight. But I don't know, I have issues.

Voting Results
61% Normal
Based on 41 votes (25 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 15 )
  • Start with your homophobia.

    You liked the company of a gay man. You think that should have repulsed you. But it didn't. Now you are confused. Well if you and 90%% of the guys on this site weren't so prejudiced about and wantonly fearful of the big gay boogieman maybe you could have accepted that he was a human being in the first place.

    I hope you challenge your bigotry. The next thing as a possibility is that not only did you enjoy his company as a person, but you are gay yourself.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • WordWizard

      I agree with this statement. I do not see what the poster problem is. He would not have given a shit if he never found out the guy was gay.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
    • face_grinder11

      Who knows, maybe. Thanks.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
    • I sorta agree. I have had men hit on me before but I truly wasn't interested. I have had a gay best friend for years (two of which I truly didn't know, his wife stil doesn't know and it was a marrage for a green card for her.) and would still talk to him if he didn't move away.

      However, he did hit on me and I refused. Not out of some bullshit religious feeling but because I just felt from inside it was wrong.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • jbmitchell999

    Gay people are people first, who happen to be gay. The fact that you enjoyed his company and his attention just means he's an ok guy and you are human. If you are sexually attracted to him, then so be it.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • yoyoyou

    if you really want to have sex with him then youre probably gay or at least bi. in which case, well, thats just what you are. you cant change that.

    i think some people would enjoy being hit on by any gender though just because they like getting attention and feeling like someone is attracted to them. who knows though?

    does it turn you on though? or do you just enjoy it? im not sure i completely understood what you were trying to say...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • sneakybear

    Experiment, what could it hurt? Besides your anus.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • seh90

    The first comment seems a little extreme but I agree with the second guy. Just because you enjoy the company of a gay guy doesn't make you gay, and if you want to do more then fair enough. At the end of the day sex is sex, I don't really see the point in putting lables on everything we do, just enjoy the moment and be who you are.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Urg, once again, I agree with double standards (most are pro-women and con-men before you jump on me, read my other post about this.) and in this case, it isn't okay for you. If you were a girl this would be kind of hot but as a guy, it just seems wrong.

    That is just how things are. However, when I was fat people though I was gay and would often hit on me because of how "cute" my face looked and how it looked womanly. Thank god it went away when I lost the weight as I truly did not like it.

    I can't vote though, becauase how the hell would I know if this is normal or not because I am not that way.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • WordWizard

      Where do you people come up with this stuff. Budthewise as in budwiser.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • PoisonFlowers

    Ugh, not another one of those "I have issues" stories again. If you enjoyed it, then you enjoyed it. Doesn't mean you're necessarily gay or straight or whatever. You just like what you like; accept it. It's okay!!!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • Are you a man or a woman? Yes it matter as you tend to write a lot and I am wondering what kind of a person you are so I can rate your advice.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • face_grinder11

        Dude, Your advise is top notch. Thanks man, seriously.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
  • face_grinder11

    .............

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • NeedAnswers101

    Dont worry dude. if u like chicks and ur not a virgen and u banged a lot of chicks and crap. then dont worry about being gay. lol u have millions of ideas that pass thru ur head every day. like thinking of killing a person but not making u a bad person. if u do not "try" or "experiment" with this gay guy, then u have nothing to worry about. dont "kiss" him or nothing...remember, ur not born gay u become. :)

    Comment Hidden ( show )