Is it normal that i like abuse?

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So, I have a boyfriend that I love so very dearly, he's my boyfriend and my best friend. Well, anyways, is it normal that I enjoy choking him, pushing him roughly against a wall, or onto the ground?
And that I love it when he puts his hands around my throat and chokes me, and when he slams me into a wall really hard? And that I wish he'd slap me across the face while making out with me?

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Based on 116 votes (61 yes)
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  • Shelbs
    9 years ago | pl

    This is called sadomasochism and it's a thing, apparently.

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  • perfectxsilence
    9 years ago | pl

    Lol, I suppose that's your fetish..unless you literally want to choke each other to death, I think you're fine.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I guess you guys are into S&M. Nothing wrong with it, as long as it doesn't get too out of hand.

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  • seakelp
    9 years ago

    I suppose that it's better than masturbating while choking yourself. At least this way there's someone who can call 911.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    It's called BDSM, it's fine.

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  • Energy
    9 years ago

    Normal. You're just kinky.

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    • Jweezee
      9 years ago

      Really? People in love enjoy beating the fuck out of each other? Not normal

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      • disthing
        9 years ago

        Sadomasochism is a key part of BDSM (Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Masocism).

        BDSM is one of the most common sexual subcultures and lifestyles usually involving complimentary but unequal roles in sex and relationships.

        http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM

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        • Jweezee
          9 years ago

          Yes, I'm fully aware of that. I'm just saying it's not a typical or "normal" behavior of most couples. That's the question, right?

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          • disthing
            9 years ago

            Sure - I'm just pointing out how it's a well-known and popular sexual pastime that isn't exactly rare either.

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      • noid
        9 years ago

        Thank you. Totally agree.

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      • Energy
        9 years ago

        It's pretty normal. It's role play. Not actual beating, you do realize that....right?

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      • Saycheese
        9 years ago

        I see you are back from your break too. :)

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        • Jweezee
          9 years ago

          Hey!! Glad to see you're still around, kiddo :).... And I've yet to see a check in the mail ;)

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  • HoneyBadgerChic
    9 years ago

    Normal,such a turn on.

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  • Jweezee
    9 years ago

    Oh my

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  • carcinoGeneticist
    9 years ago

    It's perfectly fine. It's just S&M, perfectly fine. I could never be a sadist, but I'm a bit of a masochist.

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  • scrount
    9 years ago

    As long as neither of you seriously injure each other and its just a bit of sadomasochism rough, then I guess its okay. Although, I'd lay off the choking because that can be dangerous.

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  • dickwashington
    9 years ago

    its not my thing but if the two of you are into it then good for you

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  • FreyjaS
    9 years ago

    Normal. I wouldn't do this to my boyfriend, but he does it to me every time. Sexy as hell.

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