Is it normal that i like a guy who has a girlfriend?

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Okay...
I have know this guy for about a year now and I REALLY like him (even though he is 2 years younger then me!), Unfortunetly he has a girlfriend who is EXTREAMLY over protective- she has sent me emails telling me to stop talking to him because she thinks that I have a chance and she hates it when me and him meet up. We have been accused of flirting quite a bit-I realise that we are flirting but I like it because I like him but when his girlfriend talks to him about it and when I talk about it he doesnt really realise... I really want to say somthing to him becuase I have never felt this way about a guy before and im nervous that il get rejected or in worst cases picked on!
HELP!!!

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Based on 54 votes (43 yes)
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  • thegift
    13 years ago

    I thought you never felt this way before about that last guy you felt this way before about.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      lol

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  • An+on
    7 years ago

    Play the waiting game? I recommend.

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  • luvya
    12 years ago

    No I did this b4 and that girl is a jerk a jelous jerk ok but just wait till they break up its only fair to her

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  • thebuddah
    13 years ago

    Second that wreckd

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    Back off! WTF? Are you listening to what you are saying???? She even asked you herself and sounded upset about it. Respect the girl and respect your friend's relationship. He chose HER for a reason. Get over yourself.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Back off from her boyfriend. Honestly people like you sicken me. Dint ruin her relationship because your feelings are getting in the way. How would you like it if your bf was flirting and hanging out with some other chick?

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  • Sotchi
    13 years ago

    Not cool. Especially if she sees what you're intentions are and is asking you to stop. You are intentionally interfering with someone's relationship. Have some self respect and leave it alone. It's innapropriate to flirt with someone in a relationship, and hang out with them all the time with the hopes that you'll break them up. Really wrong.

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  • emilydoll
    13 years ago

    You should back off.

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  • IDontAskMuch
    13 years ago

    Stay away. If you have any respect for him at all. He is in a relationship with someone else. If it's you he wanted he would be with you. Look at it this way if his in a relationship and you say you flirt with eachother and just maybe he cheats on his gf with you what makes you think he won't do the same to you if you both got together. Men love attention but it takes a true man to stay loyal and faithful to the person they have chose to be with. The relationship will mean more to them than a quickie with someone. The bond between him and his partner means more. Only weak people cheat. Stay away. If he wants you let him go through the proper channels rather than interfere in something you have no right to. I feel sorry for his girlfriend and totally agree with her by telling you to keep out. It's not necessarily you have a chance with him it's you trying to get him to cheat or dump her. Leave it be. Time will tell if your destined to be together or not. I hate men and women who like hitting on other peoples partners. Leave em alone and go find someone who's single. There in a relationship for a reason.

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  • IDontAskMuch
    13 years ago

    Stay a

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