Is it normal that i like a guy i shouldn't?

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I've been interested in one of my guy friends for a while and I've been trying to make it work... Yet there's this other guy that's kind of sketchy and I can't trust who just makes me smile and instantly gives me butterflies. He tried to hook up with my best friend and he's not a good guy. I know I shouldn't even text him back or have any feelings for him whatsoever. I feel guilty for liking it when he texts me! Is it weird that something about him makes me like him way more than the guy that I should be dating?

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  • valisque
    10 years ago | pl

    Sigh... moth to a flame. So here's what's gonna happen. you're gonna get with him for a short period. He's gonna serverly hurt you. You break up. You then actually meet a proper guy, but you wont give him the time of day 'cause you've got your guard way up.

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    • justaverage
      10 years ago

      Unfortunately I already have my guard way up.. But yeah you're right. I'm trying to ignore him, I really am :(

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  • Unimportant
    10 years ago

    When I'm strongly attracted to a girl I know I shouldn't go for, I try to ignore it and suppress those urges. It's hard, but it does work.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    But...But...Good guy...I thought women don't go for the bad ones...?

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    • justaverage
      10 years ago

      I thought so too!!!! I've never gone for a bad guy before... out of my element here :(

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Maybe you subconsciously feel like you deserve to be unhappy.

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    • justaverage
      10 years ago

      ... That's deep.
      You were first comment on this, and it kind of hit me hard. I've heard this a few times now, but the fact that you said that after only a short paragraph about me kind of makes me feel that I should start trying to figure it all out. It makes sense though. If only just acknowledging it would make it go away, before I get hurt by this guy.

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  • LightBlue
    10 years ago

    Its a female thing, we always go for the bad ones. Then they hurt us. Then they laugh at you cause they got what they want from you. Then you cry. Then he gets another girlfriend and will most likely be with her a little longer just to piss you off then break her heart cause he likes you again. But you know better to push him away. Or you can just be smart and just not be with him lol..

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