Is it normal that i let my male friend jack me off?

I think I am 100% straight, I only watch straight porn and fuck women. Though recently my mate and I were watching porn and we started wanking, this has happened a few times before and I'm comfortable wanking with him in the room. Though this time, half way through he reached over and wanked me with one hand and himself with the other. I was so shocked I didn't say anything but I did enjoy being wanked and would let him do it again. I didn't wank him at all. Does this make me gay or bi or something else?

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  • flyingnostalgia

    Not gay but assgoblin.

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  • Redcoats

    Bisexual.

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  • DolphinAngel

    Sexuality surely is a weird topic and I'd say what you experienced is normal. The act itself might be gay but there's nothing to be ashamed of. I mean it won't interfere with your "regular" sex life, I guess. Unless you want to, that is.

    I would consider myself to be mostly heterosexual since I have like no sexual attraction to men and can't picture myself being in a relationship with a male individual. However, I do enjoy gay porn occasionally and can go along with some gay fantasies or gay RP over the internet. I could also imagine a cute, feminine boy to be an exception to my general feelings. I don't disregard the idea completely and I'd still consider myself heterosexual rather than bisexual or pansexual even though I might have slight tendencies.

    Anyway, I hope this was helpful in some way or another :P

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  • Koda

    You didn't need to ask this, because you obviously know who you are and know who you're attracted to. You didn't ask for it, and a hand is just a hand. Don't make it out to be more complicated than it is.

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  • You guys should start suck ing dick

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  • Blade884

    I voted normal, but technically it's not. Becuase its so rare to find the right friend who is open enough to jerk off around you.

    My college roommate would jerk off in front of me, and vice vera. But that was just out of convenience, and we never touched each other.

    My cousin growing up, wanted to see my dick, and eventually I showed him. He eventually touched it, and that let to jerking me off. He only did it s few times, then I think he started jerking himself off and wasn't curous anymore.

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  • marcuskhaos

    That's gay behaviour, but if you are even remotely interested in women, it doesn't make you gay. If you know the Kinsey scale (if not look it up) sounds like you're a 1. Which is basically straight with incidental gay activities.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Another 'straight' boy trying so hard to stay in the closet. Good luck with that!

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    • handsignals

      They need to put glory holes on dem closets.

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    • Ajsbeast

      You're an idiot, just in case you didn't know.

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      • thegypsysailor

        You opinion means less than nothing to me.

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  • Couman

    A handjob is a handjob. If you get it from someone you find sexually appealing, that's a bonus, but it feels good regardless.

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  • Quintarius

    GAY. Not even joking. You had a guy jerk you off and you enjoyed it. That is homosexual.

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    • IsThisReallyIt?

      But I'm not sexually attracted to guys tho. It just felt good with someone doing it. Should it have felt bad or wrong?

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      • Quintarius

        Lets put it this way. A totally straight man would not find himself in that situation ever. If another dude pulled his junk out in front of me, i would immediately walk right out of the room, or i would turn to him and say "DUDE, wtf? NOT ok"

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        • Quintarius

          Btw, using your logic, if things had slowly escalated further and somehow his dick ended up in your ass because "it felt good", would you still be saying you are straight? You have to draw the line somewhere. For me, homosexual behavior is whenever two dudes do anything even remotely sexual with each other, and there is no chick around.

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          • CDmale4fem

            So does that also include "in your opinion" even if they are just curious and want to experiment and find things out.? If 2 women got naked in front of you and got down on each other for their pleasures, does that make them Lesbian ? Oh but since your a guy, the 2 women thing is ok in your mind right ? Now my question is why ? Whats the difference if 2 consenting people choose to do whatever, if its not in your house why should it matter and why do people feel the need to label things, " gay, stupid, lesbian, bisexual, asexual, nonsexual, ", If its not affecting someone directly why does it matter who does what, and why try to label shit that we dont know about or understand ?

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    • ews3

      This does not make you gay but might indicate you are bisexual.

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  • kennersingle

    Fuck the damn labels. Sexuality isn't so easily defined. So maybe your mostly straight, with a slight same sex attraction. As long as it's consensual, go for it. He really should have asked though. If you were not comfortable with it, it could have been really bad.

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  • Hank55

    According to the Kinsey sexuality scale, everyone falls somewhere on the 0 - 6 scale with 0 being 100% heterosexual and 6 being 100% homosexual.
    I regard myself as a 1 on this scale. This is simply because of an experience during my teens. I attended boarding school, and my roommate and I became close buddies. We would play sex games: see who could win a jerking contest and cum first; see who could shoot his cum the farthest, etc. One day we exchanged hands, with him jerking me off and I jerking him off simultaneously until both climaxed.
    We went one step further: practicing penis docking (joining the two penises together by overlapping foreskins). Roll back both foreskins, and hold the penis tips together. A then rolls back his foreskin, over his own glans and that of B. B then rolls back his foreskin, over A's foreskin, thus "docking" the penises together. You can then masturbate until both cum, filling the overlapping foreskin with the cum of both.
    (For those wishing more information, Google "Penis docking 101" and watch the video).
    We never practiced penetrative homosexual sex (and never had the wish or urge to do so). I regard it as normal sexual experimentation during the teenage years to satisfy one's curiosity, and investigate all things. Both of us are happily married now and never engaged in any penetrative homosexual acts.

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    • ews3

      Penis docking - well you learn something new everyday!

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  • Mr-Myrtos

    Most straight guys still think it does not matter. A hand is a hand either its from a women or from a guy. A mouth is a mouth no matter if is a women or a guy and a ass hole is a ass hole no matter if is a women or a guy.
    This a fact. In their mind this guys are not gay. They think gay is the guy that is the receiver/the guy blowing them.
    In my age I was never to sure about this but...I think they are wrong. Somehow if they get a hard one with another guy it's because they are at least bi.
    I guess!!!

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  • polic_officur

    not gay man...just caitlyn jenner.

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  • iEatZombies_

    So it felt good to have a hand that wasn't yours yanking you. Who cares what it is. Be comfortable in your own skin and rest assured that if you're attracted to women, you'll end up with a woman.

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  • anti-hero

    That's pretty fucking gay dude. Just jerkin' it with another dude in the room is gay.

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    • sexysonofsam

      don`t bash it until you tried it!

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      • anti-hero

        No thanks.

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  • CDmale4fem

    No, your not gay because your friend gave you a handjob. Back in 1987 a buddy and I got out of the military, about the same time. Being in another state than our home state, we were getting drunk one night along with party favors, It made me so flippen hard and horny that maybe 45-60 minutes later after I thought about how to say it, I ended up telling my buddy I wanted to feel his soft cock getting hard in my mouth and I wanted to suck his cock until I feel his warm cum shooting into the back of my throat. Anyway, we spent 30 days or so sucking each other and wearing my then gf's lingerie and pantyhose. I wanted him to at least try or to seem like he would want us to try fucking each others ass. We are still friends to this day, but although I never got him to cum in my mouth, I did cum in his many times and he swallowed, but I never get a chance to ask him about if he would ever want to try again. For me Im just a curious about things and I never into the kissing or cuddling with another guy, I just wanted to suck his cock and balls and tongued his ass, and I would do it again if given chance. In fact writing this makes me hard, and horny enough theres a tent in this nightgown Im wearing. Yes Im a crossdresser. But no, not gay at all.

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    • Blade884

      Dude there is a big difference from what you did, to his friend's handjob.

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    • sexysonofsam

      I agree with you, I too asked my best buddy from the army if he would mind terribly If I sucked his dick until he blew his load and in my mouth?

      He just whipped it out and said suck away...I went down on his cock and sucked as if i was being paid to do so, I played with his balls whilst Im was sucking him off and even slid one of my digits up his arse and started fingering his butt. I carried on manipulating his dick with my mouth and one hand ( I was masturbating his shaft) all the while whilst still sucking his head. I felt his balls contracting in my hands and knew he was about to blow his load...I just kept on sucking even harder on his head and took his whole cock into my mouth, he grabbed the back of my head and forced his dick into my throat with his balls up against my chin and I could feel how his contracted and spurted load after load of his salty cum down my throat, I loved every moment of it, in fact I was so horny that I ejaculated in my pants without any stimulation to my won dick whatsoever! It was by far one of the most erotic experiences I have ever achieved or had until this very day!

      I would gladly have sucked his dick again but sdaly he has passed away and now I find myself still longing to suck another dick but with nobody that I could trust that implicitly!

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      • CDmale4fem

        Thats the same with me, to find someone that I can trust to be discrete. Although my buddy lives 45 miles from me, but he been in a relationship for a bunch of years. So makes it hard for me to go ask him if he would mind if I sucked his cock again. Lol

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        • sexysonofsam

          Personally I am sure that if he allowed you to suck it before, he is yearning for you to ask him to suck it again.

          men are all animals of habit, once you have tried it and liked it, you will certainly want it again.

          I have sucked dick once and I want to do it again, I also want a man to suck my dick.

          obviously you cannot just stop off at his house and ask him if you can suck his dick but if you are out fishing together or something like that, you can wait until his had a beer or two, then just come out with it and ask?

          If I was not separated from you by a continent I certainly would have volunteered!

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          • CDmale4fem

            Where are you at ? Im just curious.

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            • sexysonofsam

              I live in Kathu, in the Northern Cape, in the Republic of South Africa...yourself?

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          • CDmale4fem

            My buddy also surprised me when he was willing to wear my then gfs lingerie and stuff, showing me either he wanted to try crossdressing or he is also a crossdresser. I remember once he was wearing a one piece swimsuit of my then gf, he put it on and its only obvious there's a cock in there, I played as long as I could with his cock inside the swimsuit, I was playing with his thru the suit till I couldnt take it anymore and I was about to cum in my pantyhose, I reached into that swimsuit and pulled his hard cock out and I couldnt get my mouth around it fast enough. I sucked and licked and played, fingered, and jacked his cock. I was going at it 45 minutes almost, my jaw was sore, and tired, and still I never got him to cum into my mouth, and I never got him to slide his cock into my ass either. I wanted to try it, feel it, experience it. Im sure its different from when I sucked my own cock and would cum in my mouth or on my face or whereever sounded good. But when he sucked my cock, I always cum, and he always swallowed.

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            • sexysonofsam

              Sounds fucking awsome!

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