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I have always been with girls, and about 8 months ago, I went to a party and got drunk and got taken advantage of by this guy. I was very upset but now I end up hooking up with men for some reason and do not know why, even though I do not feel attracted.
Is this normal?
No, it's not normal to let anyone take advantage of you.
It's okay to have fun, but if you feel shitty afterward, then that might not be the lifestyle for you.
If you don't want them to take advantage then its not right no.
A lot of girls and guys go out get drunk and have some harmless fun.. then a child arrives.
If you are having fun then its your life, hook up with as many guys as you want although you might get a name :/ if you regret it then stop. Maybe go easy on the drink too.
This is the third time I've said this today but, daddy issues? How is ur relationship with your father? You are literally letting men use you for sex, when you are getting absolutely nothing out of it. It hints at a much deeper psychological issue.
When I was about 7 or 8 years old my younger sister got for Christmas a box with 12 small dolls dressed in regional costumes of various countries.
She immediately thrown away one doll that looked exactly like her:)))from Caribbean islands or whatever.
After mum died,couple of years ago we found the bloody doll in a trunk in the attic. Mum kept it impeccable.
That's why I remember so well.
It looks like a twin from her.:)))
Not sexy, not hot, in fact she looks common and somehow vulgar.
I think it's pretty normal to desire feeling used after you've felt it for real.. I'm the same to be honest, and I know other girls in the same shoes.. Once you've felt used and degraded, you end up letting it happen again and again.. Just go with whatever you wanna do hun x
You have very low self esteem, thus the need to get plastered, then laid and in that particular order.
There is no such thing as an ugly girl, all girls are pretty in their own right. Find the right guy for you and fuck his brains out!
Remember promiscuity leads to infections / pregnancies / HIV Aids and you don`t want any of the aforementioned.
Love and be loved!
Maybe you just enjoy sex, but won't let yourself admit it, unless you are drunk.