Is it normal that i lack the ability to think in social situations?

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I find it difficult to meet new people or even talk on the phone with strangers. I'm always worried that I won't know what to say or if I do say something, I'm worried I'll completely embarrass myself. I lack the ability to think without stopping for a few seconds and, even then, the pressure of knowing I need to come up with something intrudes on me trying to think up what I am supposed to say. I try to relax and try to not over think it but it just seems to make things worse. Whenever I took tests at school, I'd be the first one done, so it's not like I can't think, it's just when I must speak to people. It's like my brain just freezes. When I take time alone and rethink the situations I realize whatever it is I should have realized at that moment. What's wrong with me?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Happens to me once in a while, mostly when I have to speak english. A friend introduced me to a friend of his and instead of just saying ''nice to meet you'' it sounded like ... ey. I think you just need to relax, not worry about what to say and listen to what the person says and then speak with thought. You're normal though.

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  • Akeem
    11 years ago

    I feel that way sometimes but only when it comes to situations that involves females.

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  • eldee
    12 years ago

    I feel the exact way sometimes. It is common along with other forms of social anxiety, however, it's something most people try to tend to. Sometimes therapy or cognitive skill practice is all it takes to get more control over yourself in such situations, no biggie. :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Make more friends. LOL

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      I have plenty of friends. :) It's only when I meet new people.

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