Is it normal that i know i will cheat on anyone if i get the chance?

75% Normal
2 Comments

I am guy. I haven't had many girlfriends and I haven't really had sex many times either. I am not a very sexual person either. Mostly, I am a regular nice guy (I think...?).

The thing is that... whenever I picture my next long and serious relationship, I feel like no matter who I am with, I might end up cheating on the person. I just feel like I will grow tired of whoever I will be with somehow. It is not like I have an urge or anything... but I feel like if I get a chance to cheat without getting caught, I might do it without remorse.

I don't know, I just really have these bad thoughts and I was wondering if any of this is normal...

Voting Results
75% Normal
Based on 4 votes (3 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 2 )
  • ProseAthlete
    11 years ago

    It sounds more like you have a little anxiety about future problems -- boredom, temptation, the dissolution of the relationship -- rather than any current problem with cheating. You can't really picture a long, serious relationship until you're actually in a long, serious relationship, so you can't really know how you'll behave in the long term -- and I mean the really long term.

    I think it's probably pretty normal to feel as though you want a lot of different partners if you haven't yet had a lot of different partners. A buffet always looks better when you're hungry, right? Well, there you go. ;)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • bigguy2010
    11 years ago

    What you need is a bit of maturity with a big helping of Self Control.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -1
    -1