Is it normal that i kissed my first love while engaged?

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Ok, so i am engaged to the most wonderful man in the world. we met at the end of high school and will be getting married very soon. I never thought i would ever ever ever cheat on him, until my best friend from high school got back into my life. He was my first love. He knew and always claimed he didn't like me. after we started talking it came o0ut that he had liked me that whole tie and was to nervous to do anything about it, expectantly after i met my now fiance. I still have friends who think Him and i should get together. Well, i couldn't get the thought of him out of my mind and i kept wondering if i would regret not knowing what its like to even kiss him. After 5 years i still wondered that so i went to his place last night to watch the debate, my fiance knew and was alright with it. problem is. We ended up kissing and i dont feel very good about it but part of me is glad i did it. please offer nice advice. i know i shouldnt have done it.

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  • pambambam
    11 years ago

    slut

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    I don't agree with Neuro on the part that you should tell your fiance that you kissed another guy. It will definitely not help in the relationship. What you have done is not a horrible crime. Just avoid this guy who surely has only been tempting you because he knows that now you are not free (many men are like that). Just be a good fiancee now

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    When I clicked on this, I was hoping the rest of the story would be the words "…IN COMBAT".

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    First of all, quit hanging around the guy. If you can't control yourself around him than you should never hang out with him alone, ever. Tell him that you don't want a repeat and that if he wishes to continue the friendship, he will have to deal with the aforementioned conditions. On the flip side, a guy that would be willing to make that kind of physical contact with a girl who is already engaged is bad news. Re-think your regard for him.

    Second, I would recommend that you approach your Fiance about this. Explain to him that you had feelings for this guy, ask for his forgiveness and assure him that you will not be seeing this guy alone again and if your Fiance requests that you not see him at all, then respect his request and cut off all ties with this guy.

    There is a chance that he will be understanding, albeit angry, and might be willing to let this one go. There is also a chance that he will decide that he would rather be single than be with someone who lacks the necessary self control to be faithful. Either way, you should give him the chance to make that decision for himself and not withhold the truth from him. The longer you wait, the worse it will be when you tell him.

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