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I only met one of my second cousins last year for the second time in my life. He is really nice and all, I know that we will never go out, but is it normal to think that
I don't think it's normal in general, but it seems to be normal among the members of this site.
I don't think it's normal, he's really related to your blood. Everyone else in the world is only a bit related, so you can have them all you want. I think it's a bit gross, but whatever you want to do is not all right.. but it's up to you and your decisions.
Really the only thing that needs to be said is that its a normal feeling.
Hey..hey..Snap out of it!Hes your cousin!We don't fantasize about fucking our family.
Dont care what those idiots say. Its perfectly ok!!!! Tell them to give you a good reason why it shouldnt be? All humans in the world are distinctly related. And everything is fare in true love, and dont go asking this damned people whom you would love or not. Its upto you and I support you!!!!
Really?Im an idiot to think that its wrong to have romantic feelings for your family!ok please forgive me oh wise one!
Well technically he's not exactly related to you by YOUR blood if you think about it, it's not really incest.
Probably OK I have jacked off to at least 4 or 5 of my 2nd cousins before.
I heard of people being with their cousins. Back in the old day that was normal. 2nd cousins are blood related its just they are further down the blood chain so your children will have a greater chance at being born normal. You must be really desperate to be dating your cousin. 7 billion ppl on earth and thats the only one who caught your attention? Wow that is really sad. I can tell you this now, if you did start dating the relationship won't last and its just going to grow awkward attention and make your life very awkward. One day when you grow much older you will regret it and wish you never thought those thoughts. Find yourself a real love... Why shrink that low? I am pretty sure there is someone out there that you really like other then your cousin. Try to pursue them. Have you asked yourself y do you like your cousin so much? Why r you so drawn to your cousin? Really dig deep. If you feel that you will never find romantic love and thats y u r searching for it from your family don't listen to that voice, you will find romantic love and it doesn't have to be from you cousin. Keep the love for your cousin on a family base level, not a romantic level.
It depends on how you define second cousin. Some people define it as your first cousin's child, which would actually be first cousin once removed, while others go with the standard of their parents' first cousin's child.
It also depends on the social norms you were raised with. For example, in some families the stance of "as long as it's legal" is taken. In my home state they wouldn't have a problem marrying their first cousin's child, as state law says you can marry your first cousin once removed and further down the line.
Yet others take the stance that if they can't legally marry a person due to incest laws then their descendents can't marry their cousin's descendents. That means your second cousin (going by the actual definition, or fourth cousin going by common definition) is off limits.
Basically if you were raised to believe that it's incest regardless of what law and religion say then it's not normal in the sense that you're going against your upbringing. If your family takes the "as long as it's legal" stance then it's as normal as fantasizing about a guy when your closest common ancestor lived before the Dark Age.
Even first cousins. There's a lot of stories about cousins here on IIN, people apparently don't know that cousin marriage, even between 1st cousins is legal in virtually all countries (in the USA it depends on which state you live) and is not forbidden by religion.