Is it normal that i keep having dreams about this one guy...?

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This might be quite long so I'm sorry.
So, there's this guy who is at my University and last year we kept getting together at parties and stuff and we almost got together properly (like boyfriend/girlfriend) but then I freaked out and decided I didn't want a relationship after all so we didn't end up getting together. Then I didn't see him for aaages til about 6 months ago at another party and we ended up kissing again but nothing more. Anyway, nothing came of it (I didn't want it to anyway) and I haven't really seen him properly since, just in passing.
Anyway, I'm now back home for the summer and I've started seeing this other guy who I met through a friend and I really like him and it seems to be going well. But now, I keep having dreams about the guy from university ALL the time. Dreams where we're together, dreams where we're getting married, dreams where I try to kiss him and he rejects me, dreams where he tells me he hates me, dreams where he tells me he loves me. And I can't stop thinking about him, I keep looking at his facebook profile and generally obsessing about him. But I haven't seen him in AGES and I am genuinely happy with this other guy. I'm starting to freak myself out.
IS THIS NORMAL???!

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  • qazorin
    13 years ago

    IF IT MAKES YOU WET THEN FUCK HIS BRAINS OUT!!!!

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  • fullhouse
    11 years ago

    I guess you feel guilty a bit deep inside for rejecting his love..Dont worry i think its normal,it"ll go away

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  • whatthehellnow
    13 years ago

    You don't even talk to him? Maybe you feel as if you should have maintained a friendship with him, so you're having those dreams? As long as you're legitly happy with your current boyfriend that's the only thing I can really think of. That is if you don'r crave a romantic relationship with that guy at all.

    Sorry if that made no sense, some friends and I had some wine before. Ooo, I'm so fancy!

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