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I'm 19 and I'm gay. I came out a-little over a year ago. I have tried and tried to find someone and just can't. The people that I did find just wanted sex but I want more, no I need more. I just feel like giving up and just staying single and lonely :/
You're 19. You have your whole life ahead of you. Get out there. Have friends. And when the time comes, you will find someone.
Thank you for being sweet and reading my post and giving feedback :D u r to nice
I know. It's easier to feel negative about things than positive. I have faith in u that u will not stay alone and lonely forever even though u say that's how it feels :) ^.^
I'm really sorry, but it really is hard to find people. And most of the time they are only looking for one thing. I'm sorry about what happen to you. Maybe he will see what he is loosing, are you might just find someone better.. I wish you the best of luck also
What can I tell you mate... I'm 29 and I'm gay too.. To be honest with you, I used to believe that someday would find someone perfect for me, and I have tryed so hard for many years. I started somehow like you, around 18 y/o, meeting people, I wont lie, also having ocassional intercourse with some of them, but always keeping in mind that I just wanted someone "special" enough to share my life.
Had several boyfriends but for some reazon i always ended up alone in a couple of months. And then around 25 y/o I found this guy... He wasnt what I first spected from someone in certain ways but I learnt to value him for who he was, not his phisical look... And I fell totally in love with him... Well to shorten things, now almost 5 yrs have past, he has left me so fucking many times and sonetimes for just ridiculous reazons... and I have fought to get him back so hard every single time... And just a couple of days ago we ended our relationship again...
Look I wont gonna lie to you, im tired of playing that game and seems to me theres no winner... Think about it, two men pulling each one for his own side, trying to have a relationship the way our society tell us a repationship should be, thats honestly impossible...
Either way you change the way you spect a gay relationship would be, or you give up to all hopes of having that society-made relationship... Hope you will be able to choose well and in time... For me the only choice left now after so many attempts is: forget about it...
Didnt want things be that way but apready tryed everything on my hands.
My best wishes to you, really really hope you prove im wrong at all and find someone in the near future.