Is it normal that i just don't want to have sex?

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I remember I made up my mind when I was 14 that I would stay a virgin till marriage because I had, had a boy feel my 'area' and I felt like a total slut so I vowed I would wait. Then when I was around 15-16, the peer pressure came, all of my friend were having types of sex, Some were getting 'fingered' or had oral sex and a lot had even had sex. I didn't really have any to offer me sex because they all knew I didn't want to so in a way it made me sad but also happy. But people started calling me frigid and stuff but I was proud because I didn't want to be a slut, but I thought it would all be better when I found that 'special someone' but now when I'm 18, I just DON'T want to do it any more! I don't want to be in a relationship ever now, people have made me believe that no one will want to be with me because I've never done it so I might as well just not do it ever. Is it normal to feel this way? Did that make sense? I will write it to you again if it didn't.

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  • Gelmurag
    12 years ago

    Stop listening to other people. I know its tough, but other people don't control you, just like other people don't feed you. Virgins are very rare today, and in reality any guy worth keeping will truly respect it. People will want to be with you, but you should be picky. Once you find the right person though, all those thoughts you have now, will vanish. Is it normal, not entirely, but it isn't not normal either.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    I am a guy and I respect you for deciding to be celibate. It is a rare thing among today's youth.

    P.S. Being a virgin doesn't make you any less bang-able in my opinion. I am sure many guys would agree too.

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